Observation: Impediments to Moving Up

[crosscountry55]

We've beaten the facial hair horse dead, so let me shift gears. I invite a discussion about wedding rings to begin. Thoughts?


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[Rob1968]

They are considered jewelry, so the players are not allowed to wear them . . .

[JRutledge]

Wedding rings are the only jewelry acceptable to wear that can be seen.

Peace

[BillyMac]

Originally Posted by Rob1968

They are considered jewelry, so the players are not allowed to wear them . . .

Great answer.

[Rob1968]

At an NCAA Women's camp: "Don't do anything that the players can't do - palm the ball while you're waiting to give it to the thrower, wear a beard, wear jewelry - including your wedding ring . . ."

[bas2456]

Originally Posted by Rob1968

At an NCAA Women's camp: "Don't do anything that the players can't do - palm the ball while you're waiting to give it to the thrower, wear a beard, wear jewelry - including your wedding ring . . ."

While it might be strange...I can't imagine there's a rule in the NCAAW book against players having beards

[Rob1968]

And I was certain that comment was coming, from someone. Still, the underlying principle has served me well.
Another example of the application of that principle is that I used to be able to easily clear the net, when it got hung up on the rim, by jumping up and hitting it with my hand. After negative comments, that I was "showing up the players" I no longer do that, but ask that a player clear the net, by jumping or hitting it with the ball.

Because I do so much mentoring, and teaching/training of younger/less experienced officials, I stress that our goal is to remove, do away with, eliminate any thing that a supervisor/evaluator may find objectionable. It is an extension or practical application of that principle. In other terms, it is the "when in Rome . . ." idea.

[bas2456]

Originally Posted by Rob1968

Another example of the application of that principle is that I used to be able to easily clear the net, when it got hung up on the rim, by jumping up and hitting it with my hand. After negative comments, that I was "showing up the players" I no longer do that, but ask that a player clear the net, by jumping or hitting it with the ball.

I get what you're saying. Were those comments though coming from assignors/evaluators?

[BillyMac]

Originally Posted by Rob1968

... to be able to easily clear the net, when it got hung up on the rim, by jumping up and hitting it with my hand.

For me, the good old days. Now, where are my keys?

[Raymond]

Originally Posted by Rob1968

At an NCAA Women's camp: "Don't do anything that the players can't do - palm the ball while you're waiting to give it to the thrower, wear a beard, wear jewelry - including your wedding ring . . ."

Players can palm the ball.

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef

What do the officials who work the level you aspire to reach do in regards to facial hair? Once you get to that level and are established, then grow facial hair and create the new standard.

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[jTheUmp]

I wear a beard in the offseason, and keep clean shaven once the season (football, basketball, or baseball) starts. Which basically means I get to have the beard in June, July and the first half of August (I don't work summer baseball), and for a couple of weeks between seasons.

Used to wear a beard in my first years of doing football, until a few of the "guys I look up to" gave me the "I'm not saying you need to get rid of the beard, but..." talk.

As for wedding rings... I take mine off if I remember to do so before i get out of my car. Not because anyone around here cares, I do it because my ring is a bit loose on my finger and I don't want to accidentally lose it during a basketball (or worse, football) game.

[Camron Rust]

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef

Players can palm the ball.

Only some, particularly on the women's side as was the focus of the camp he was referring to.

I once heard that same thing and it was in the context of not appearing to be showing them up with something many men can do but many women can't.

[SC Official]

Originally Posted by Rob1968

At an NCAA Women's camp: "Don't do anything that the players can't do - palm the ball while you're waiting to give it to the thrower, wear a beard, wear jewelry - including your wedding ring . . ."

[pfan1981]

I wear my wedding ring so that someone in the crowd thinks, "Someone actually married that @$$hole!" Lol.

And so the hot moms know they are going to have to really impress me, haha. Totally kidding in the last one btw.

[Refhoop]

Originally Posted by crosscountry55

We've beaten the facial hair horse dead, so let me shift gears. I invite a discussion about wedding rings to begin. Thoughts?


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Without a wedding ring, and facial hair; you may get more attention than you want from high school moms...

What assignor really cares about a wedding ring?