First 2 EJ's of my career

[bbump82]

As far as your two sit's, the first one is a no brainer.
The second one seems like a HTBT. I would have to consider the mood of the coach, how the comment was delivered, ..., before I could make a call on that one. My inclination would be to let him stay, till it got worse.

As for the crowd in the parking lot, I would have told them that if they have a complaint, to send it to the league. If they pressed to discuss it any farther, I'd get in my car and call 911.