[Freddy]

Well stated, Kelvin green. If the points of your post became widely known, then the help I remarked that the National Anthem needs would be aptly supplied.
I went to watch games tonight at that school I mentioned where, when the band plays the National Anthem, the entire home crowd sings the entire anthem loudly and proudly (in truth, it's my alma mater, and I don't get there much as I'm assigned elsewhere most nights). It's presented by the pep band, not performed by an individual. It's played with a nice, singable pace, and sure was a good experience for all there, as it is each game there.
Again, your words and insights provide the help needed. Not sure how it could become more widespread, as that kind of gratitude and understanding deserves.