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Next, the statement "...the fact that most boys dont like to listen to girls..." is: a) not actually a fact, it's a generalization b) false (as are all generalizations, including this one) c) interesting, coming from you (a female) -- how much time have you spent as a boy? ;>) If you have reached this point in my reply and are angry, then you are taking this too seriously -- I'm obviously having some fun with this. After all, you need thick skin to be a successful referee. If you are truly nervous about the coaching position, I'd suggest notifying the school that you'd like to take some time to think about it, and then do just that. Now, whether someone will listen to you (regardless of their age/gender and your age/gender) or not depends upon you and them. If you earn the respect of others, typically they will listen. If you are a good coach, or become one, whomever you are coaching should listen. If not, then they are cheating themselves -- that would not be a knock on your coaching ability. Accept the fact that there are those who are "uncoachable". But don't go into it with the attitude that because you are a female you are different and will or should be treated differently. If I were in the same position you describe, I would be nervous about getting the kids to listen (who wouldn't?). But, I wouldn't let that show, and I know that it would work out fine. In addition, don't go into it with any assumptions about the kids (for example: "...boys dont like to listen to girls..."). Whatever you do, be honest with yourself. And remember, if you see yourself as different, then you can bet your butt that others will see you that way too. It's like handing out a free pass for it. Good luck, whatever you decide. For what it's worth, I think you'll do fine. Why? Because if you are the type of person that will ask questions and seek help from others, as you are doing here, then you have at least some of the basic qualities for success, and probably many more. Now... you want it? Go for it! [Edited by FallCaller on Dec 30th, 2003 at 10:34 AM] |
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