A Few Questions

[Stair-Climber]

1. Why is it a mechanics no no to tell batter to take 1B or point to 1B on ball four? I always just say "ball four" with a strong voice, but sometimes batter doesn't realize that she should take 1B. If batter continues to stand in batter's box after ball four or if batter starts heading to dug out because she believes she is out, shouldn't we (umps) step in and tell batter that she in entitled to 1B?

2.Is it appropriate for me to call time and make F2 throw ball back to F1 if there is a lengthy standoff between F2 (holding ball after pitch) and runner standing off base threatening to steal? Sometimes this situation goes on way too long without either player making a serious move.

3.If I am working game by myself and out far in the infield on play at a base, is it a good idea or appropriate mechanics to always call time when runner(s) have stopped at base(s) and the ball is back to the pitcher in the circle? Reason: While heading back to behind home plate, if I don't call time, I have to watch the runners all the way back in order to make sure that they don't leave base (with F1 holding ball in circle). If I call time, I don't have to worry about what runners are doing until play resumes--correct?

4. Is it inappropriate for me (ump) to tell batter (standing in batter's box) to step out of way of possible play at home when runner on 3B is coming home on wild pitch or passed ball? If it is wrong for me to do that, please tell me why.

5. Playing ASA rules, is it appropriate for me (ump) to allow coaches to stand outside of dugout during live play if the league has decided that it is okay. Had a coach, who was standing next to but outside of dugout, get hit hard in the leg from line drive this evening.