How much crap do you take?

jcmrefump · #1 (**permalink**) Thu Nov 02, 2000, 07:19pm

I think you handled the situation well. One of the things I like to do is ask the coach if he would like to repeat what he just said. He will respond in one of two ways: 1)He'll then say that he was just talking to his team. or 2)He'll repeat it, at this time you would flag him if necessary. Coaches will say a lot of things before they think, this gives them the opportunity to think about what he is saying and if it is directed at you. Also remember, take as much as you can from a coach. He is feeding his family with his W/L record. You are out there for the enjoyment of being involved in the game.

Texas Aggie · #2 (**permalink**) Fri Oct 31, 2008, 02:34pm

It sounds like you put up with a little more than you should, but that isn't a criticism. At your level, I did that as well. Probably still do, in fact.

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His response, "I still get one more before I'm gone."

This is an automatic flag. It is essentially saying, "I have no respect for your authority."

Referee · #3 (**permalink**) Fri Oct 31, 2008, 04:24pm

When the coach gets hot & heavy explain to him that you just saved a ton of money by switching your car insurance to GEICO...

jontheref · #4 (**permalink**) Mon Nov 03, 2008, 12:31pm

I dont think there is any question you handled it well. As for the R being a young guy....I make them in my sub varsity games. That way they can develop a presence, an understanding of the rules and its a nice little day off of sorts from the WH. As for dealing with coaches, everyone struggles with it. Over time you will develop how much you want to take. Veterans know what to say. Always answer a direct question---and answer it in as few words as possible. On the warsity level I never talk to assistant coaches...and I rarely do much talking at a sub varsity game. The sideline warining is a nice tool to use -- but only if it will help with a situation. The other thing is just to concentrate on your job....remember you cant quote silience. Show no reaction and they will go about their business. Unfortunately, I have come to experience that most sub varsity coaches believe they are coaching for a championship ring that day.