Handling Coaches

[constable]

Originally Posted by SC Official

"Coach, you're either going to coach or you're going to officiate, but you're not going to do both." I think you know which one he will pick.

"Coach, calm down and let us call the game."

"Coach, you need to pick your spots, we're not wrong every time."

"Enough."

I would never tell a coach to "calm down" or "relax". All that does is give the coach an opportunity to scream " I am calm! " etc.

[Mark Padgett]

OK - here's my serious answer. Just stop, put up your hand like a stop sign and tell him (or her) "That's enough coach". That generally worked for me.

OK - here's my typical answer. "I'll tell you what coach - let's trade places. You come out here and call the game and I'll sit on the bench and act like a jackass." That generally works, also.

[Sharpshooternes]

Originally Posted by Mark Padgett

OK - here's my typical answer. "I'll tell you what coach - let's trade places. You come out here and call the game and I'll sit on the bench and act like a jackass." That generally works, also.

I wouldn't even dare try this.

[BatteryPowered]

Had a game the other night. A1 goes up for a shot and two defenders attempt a block...one gets all ball, the other gets all arms. I hit the whistle and indicate two shots. As I am moving to report the coach says "She got all ball." I reply "Which player coach?"..."22" she replied. I smiled and said "I agree, however...WHITE...12...HIT...TWO SHOTS." She just looked at me and sat down.

[jTheUmp]

Originally Posted by constable

I would never tell a coach to "calm down" or "relax". All that does is give the coach an opportunity to scream " I am calm! " etc.

Reminds me of a story from a football official (who now works in the NFL). Back in his D-III college days, he had one coach who vehemently disagreed with a call right at the end of the first half. Before the officials could get off the field at the start of halftime, said coach was "expressing his displeasure" to another official (who was a first-year college official at the time). Future NFL ref walks over to the conversation, and calmly says to the coach "Come on, coach, you're better than that". Coach immediately replies, as loudly enough for a significant portion of the fans to hear. "NO, I'M NOT!"

[Welpe]

I had that exact exchange with a football coach after flagging his defender for DPI but it was backwards. Coach: "Come on you're better than that!"

"I'm really not coach!"

[SC Official]

Originally Posted by constable

I would never tell a coach to "calm down" or "relax". All that does is give the coach an opportunity to scream " I am calm! " etc.

It all depends on your tone of voice. I've softly and firmly told coaches to "calm down" and it's worked fine.

[JRutledge]

Well tonight I had a coach that did nothing but complain. I had to address it several times because every play was an argument. When he did not shut up, I told him very clearly he needed to "knock it off." He tried to sulk a little but he eventually got the message and did nothing in the second half. He won the game and yes people saw the exchange. But I won because I was able to have my crew call the game and he was sitting and shutting up. We are grown men here and if you want to act like a child I will treat you like one. It is that simple to me and works for me as well.

Peace