Fist bump your partner? (Video)

[Jay R]

Another example of perception.

In a high school game last week, a guy I know walks onto the floor to ask me a question about a situation. I quickly usher him back to his seat and tell him that I can talk to him after the game. When we chatted the next day, I reminded that (first of all) you never step onto the court during a game. And secondly, he was at the game because his daughter was playing. It never occured to him how this might be perceived that the father of a player was coming onto the floor to talk to an official during a timeout.

[DRJ1960]

The absurdity of the "firestorm" proves the point of being "above reproach".

[so cal lurker]

Originally Posted by DRJ1960

The absurdity of the "firestorm" proves the point of being "above reproach".

Keep in mind that the NFL has what many consider absurdly excessive retrictions on player celebration -- which may be an undercurrent to the "firestorm" about the referees . . . let's just penalize the zebras 15 yards and move on . . .

. . . but on the serious side, why do it and risk someone misinterpretting it?

[JRutledge]

The only time I shake hands or fist bump is before (halftime during football games as well) and after the game. Usually after the game is the only time when it is not public. I would not do this in this particular situation, I would wait until the game was over. But that is just me.

Peace

[mutantducky]

this is how I roll

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCvmZ-lfkqM

[mtn335]

I've developed a habit of, when a partner calls one in my area that I didn't have a good look, saying "Good help" or "good pickup" or "Thanks, glad you could see it" or something on the way by. I may have to rethink that, because in my first game at a new NCAA-W level this year, when I said "Great help, thanks!" to my partner, the home coach heard it and apparently went NUTS on my partner for me "cheering at his call." Guess I'm not doing that anymore...at least not as loud.

[Stat-Man]

I've exchanged fist bumps with partners before a game. I don't think I'd do it during, though. My main reason would be that I simply don't see a reason to do so.

If I wanted to thank a partner for making a good call or for picking up something in my area that I missed, I can easily mention that at halftime or after the game. That way, I have any questions or wish to seek constructive feedback on the situation, there's enough time for that.

A good-bye handshake or final interaction usually happens inside the locker room after we've changed and before we leave for home.

YMMV

[Kansas Ref]

I just use a head nod to non-verbally indicate to parnter if I agreed with the suspect call. I would never fist bump in the heat of public competition and with all those folks in the gym with Ipads and cell phones recording the games, opens up a can of stale achovies!

[walt]

I am in the "good call" camp but no handshake/fist bump after initial one right before start of game until we get to the locker room.