Heavy Heart

[Raymond]

Thanks all for the words. I did not realize he was 67 until I read his obituary. Even though he was a D3 supervisor he still officiated HS basketball and was a big influence on the board I joined a couple years ago. I actually worked a HS game with him this past season. He was a family first type of guy and he has a lot of people who are going to miss him.

Originally Posted by JRutledge

... This is one of the big drawbacks of getting older, you lose people that influenced your growth along the way.

Peace

This is why my father sold his house in Florida and moved back up to where he grew up outside of Philly. Family and friends who has known for decades are starting to die off, and he wanted to be around them more.

[BillyMac]

I've belonged to lots of "groups" (sports, business, education, church, politics, etc.) over the years. For some reason, and I certainly don't know why, basketball officials form special bonds. When an official passes, it's almost like an uncle, or a brother passes. I can't tell you the number of times that I've attended the wake of a fellow official and the family always comments, "I can't believe that all these referees showed up".

Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart; and you will find rest for your selves. For my yoke is easy, and my burden light. (Matthew 11:28-30)

[Lcubed48]

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef

I did not realize he was 67 until I read his obituary. Even though he was a D3 supervisor he still officiated HS basketball and was a big influence on the board I joined a couple years ago. I actually worked a HS game with him this past season. He was a family first type of guy and he has a lot of people who are going to miss him.

I shall also miss him. I never had the pleasure of working with him, but I have received the benefit of his wisdom and knowledge over the years. His first message at his camp every year was a simple one - if you're not here to improve , then there's the door. That always hit home with me because given my age and look I was never ever going to be the next great one. I came, had fun, and got better.