Talking to coaches

[Terrapins Fan]

In addition to doing HS games, I run our Church League. I train and schedule young officials. I referee a few games myself and I observe the officials.

This year before the season begins, I am going to talk to the coaches about sportsmanship and the fact that this is CHURCH league and not the NBA.

I'd love to hear advice from you guys. Any ideas of how to convey these ideas?

Thanks in advance.

[JRutledge]

If the Church League is made of of kids, I have no issues there. If the Church League is made up of adults, then you may have more blowback. It does not mean that you should not do it on the second example, but adults think they know better and what you say might not go over as well. Kids still are used to be told what to do or having to listen to adults so they might pay a little attention.

Peace

[JetMetFan]

Since you’re in Maryland take some excerpts from the MPSSAA’s “Coaches Leading the Way” handbook and just add in points you feel would be appropriate for the church league. Combined I would think that should do the trick.

[Terrapins Fan]

Thanks to both of you. I am looking at the MPSSAA site now.

[Altor]

Have the teams meet for a prayer at half court just before the game begins, led by the "home" team on the schedule. Suggest to the captains/coaches that part of the prayer include thanking Him for the time of friendly fellowship, a request to keep everybody healthy, and a reminder to the competitors that they are playing for His glory.

[johnny d]

Originally Posted by Altor

Have the teams meet for a prayer at half court just before the game begins, led by the "home" team on the schedule. Suggest to the captains/coaches that part of the prayer include thanking Him for the time of friendly fellowship, a request to keep everybody healthy, and a reminder to the competitors that they are playing for His glory.

This suggestion makes me laugh. I used to work a greek church men's league. The league was very competitive and there was always a lot of wagering going on each game. Many of the teams brought in ex college players and ex professional players from overseas. None of them were greek, they were all ringers. League rules dictated that the teams line up at mid court facing each other while they said a prayer before each game. The ball was tossed and they started beating on each other and talking trash just like any other men's league I have ever officiated.

[just another ref]

It is not uncommon for a church league to stress zero tolerance for any unsportsmanlike behavior, and some have penalties of their own, such as an automatic suspension for an ejection, etc. Announce it, then enforce it. The players and coaches will adjust.

[Sharpshooternes]

Originally Posted by Altor

Have the teams meet for a prayer at half court just before the game begins, led by the "home" team on the schedule. Suggest to the captains/coaches that part of the prayer include thanking Him for the time of friendly fellowship, a request to keep everybody healthy, and a reminder to the competitors that they are playing for His glory.

We joke here that church ball is the only brawl that begins with a prayer.