T or no T?

[jeremy341a]

Originally Posted by tomegun

I guess I would have to be there. It seems like another conversation with a brat player to me.

That is exactally what it was but by not giving him a T it seems like I actually am condoning his behavior and it will continue in the future. Thinking back I believe I should have called the T.

[bob jenkins]

Not even close to a T, imo.

[Raymond]

Originally Posted by jeremy341a

That is exactally what it was but by not giving him a T it seems like I actually am condoning his behavior and it will continue in the future. Thinking back I believe I should have called the T.

Don't have conversations when a player makes comments like "we are playing good defense, they are just throwing it up there." Simply say "I don't want to hear any more comments"

[packersowner]

Silence is golden sometimes.

[JRutledge]

Originally Posted by packersowner

Silence is golden sometimes.

I think we have a right and responsibility to address players. Just the way you do it is different. Players are not on equal footing with coaches IMO and their behavior should be addressed directly. It would just be a one way conversation that is all.

Peace

[Adam]

Advice stage, I see.

The only thing I address from players here is "what did I do?" Anything beyond that ends with "You asked what you did. I told you. Time to move on." That assumes it was my call, if not I refer them to That Guy.

Players that try to debate quickly find themselves playing defense or rebounding free throws.

Nothing more really goes well.

I never ask for speaking captains. If it goes to OT, I tell whichever coach looks at me first from each team, four minutes, you get one more timeout.

[egj13]

I definately wouldn't issue a T in the OP scenario...but then again I don't issue many. If they aren't showing me up then I usually give them a break. In this scenario, you are in the paint and they (I am assuming) are speaking at a level where only you and the players around you can hear. Let him know to keep playing and press without getting your panties bunched. Now if you are the trail and he comes and throws his arms up as he says something..T him right there because he just showed you up in the middle of the floor. IMO many of us are to sensitive...this isn't about us out there. Let them have their frustration as long as they aren't demonstrative and play on.

[Adam]

I have to add a couple of things. First, this idea that they get a pass if they aren't showing you up is misleading. It isn't the only way to get a T. If johnny says something stupid and I'm the only one who hears it, too bad, he gets a T.

Second, players and coaches may be emotional, they have a vested interest in the outcome. However, they still have to control those emotions. Displaying emotion is never an excuse for poor sportsmanship.

[maven]

Color me "not even close to a T."

When he whinges that they're playing good defense, I'll tell him, "Good, keep working hard." If he wants to argue or comment about the call, then I'll end the conversation.