Why are we reluctant to call Ts?

[AK ref SE]

In the Adult Rec league I had the nickname at the beginning of the year MR. T. I made my mark in the sand, and stuck by it. After couple weeks never had a problem in the games I worked.
HS level my mark in the sand is a little different. But, I have a certain amount that I am going to take. I have maybe 2 T's a year on coaches. Many officials in my area have not had 2 T's in ten years. My area the coaches pick who will do the conference tourney. I have never gone! Maybe because I am not as good of an official as the others, maybe because I am not afraid to say enough is enough. Sure I would love to do a tourney. But, if not I have more important things in life My family.

AK ref SE