Time out - know who has ball

[Troward]

As a coach you could ask the official with every time out "Where is our inbounds spot?" this will put it into the mind of the official that it is your ball.

I suggest you tell your designated inbounder to to always line up next to the official for the inbounds at EVERY whistle, not just time outs, regardless of whose ball it is. With the officiating you seem to be getting you will proabably average at least an extra possesion per game.