Very, very disturbing situation

[Pirate]

Looks like everything worked out O.K. Big Dave, there still is a bit of justice in this world. For future reference, I would agree with 4 sport official and get another player to confirm what you said if it becomes an issue of integrity over who said what. I also agree with most of this board that it is best not to meet with the parents on an incident of this nature. My experience as a teacher, coach, school administrator and now referee tells me that many parents believe what they choose to believe involving issues such as this. Anything you say probably won't change their minds, but if you have a corroborating story from another party, they'll be the one's doing the apologizing instead of you.