Had a game Saturday where the fould count was 8 - 1. The coach had the usual comments about it and then said "All I want is an evenly called game and judging by the scoreboard you all are not doing that". I SOOOOOO wanted to say "Well, do you want the score evened out as well? If you gave the other team 7 points you could even that out as well." However, I just took two steps to my left!!
Later, when the foul count was 10 - 2 "That Fan" kept yelling, "You're only calling one side of the court.!!" OVER AND OVER. The radio PbP guys were at a break and I said "I WISH I was only calling one half of the court then I wouldn't have to do all this damn running". They cracked up and the *******s even used the line on the air......without giving ME any credit.!!!
Having said that, there are coaches, had two last nite, that if the have an issue with a call they may have a point and it should be addressed. IE. Had a player who kept driving endline, ending up behind the backboard and then jumping into the defender all for no call. After I explained what was happening they were fine with it and made the correction.

I see this more happen when the players really react to an out of bounds call that goes against them rather than the fans' reaction.

I would have stopped the game for a couple of free throws on this one.

Yup! At the highest level, they are taught not to be tied to their decisions. Be open to "why" it was perceived to be a foul/violation, dont try to prove "why" it wasn't a foul/violation. - Marc Davis

+1

If a coach can get away with crap like that, he'll just keep on a-doing it to you.

The problem is 99% of fans don't know jack about the rules, and even less about officiating. They think every bit of contact is a foul, unless it's on their team, then it's "ticky-tack" if there's no blood or concussion involved. They think the 3 second rule is always in effect (probably even during timeouts). They think a high dribble is illegal. They think it's a foul for a taller player to reach over top of a shorter one. And (this is just a guess) I'm willing to bet they think it's perfectly legal for a player to go out of bounds to get around defenders as long as he doesn't have the ball.

Further, they see everything through glasses tinted with their team colors. Why in the world would I take their complaints seriously?

Coaches get more credibility, but not much. they're less likely to miss all those rules, but their glasses have even darker tint than the fans.

Does that mean every coach and every fan that offers a critique is full of crap? No, but the likelihood of them having valid points is so small as to be negligible and therefore we're justified in dismissing them.

If you want to know how you're doing, get a qualified official to come observe your game. Don't take a poll.

I am not one who finds comments like that offensive, but I know that there are others who are more sensitive. We DID stop the game for a few FT's when he yelled, "That just shows how poor your judgement is." IMO, that is a little more personal. Ironically, he later apologized when we upgraded a foul on the other team to an Intentional. He said, "Unfortunately, it is too late to take back my earlier statement and the 'T'". Again, I SOOO wanted to say "We are just trying to keep things even. You know one bad judgement call, one good judgement call!!" But I just smiled and moved on. Yep, needed a new personal filter after the game!!

So, if the coach promises to not complain, you will call the game by the book. But if the coach complains, you will back off from the book and let the coach complain and complain and thus influence your ability to officiate by the book? Well, of course you will because you won't tell the coach to cut it out and then whack him to stop the complaining and allow you to work the game by the book. And why are you officiating? Sack up, tell the coach not to complain and if the coach complains, whack him. Otherwise continue on your journey of letting the coach dictate your ability to officiate by the book and keep that wonderful JV schedule you deserve.....

I don't see it as being sensitive; that's an even more direct charge on your integrity than a normal appeal to the foul count, IMO. I couldn't care less what he actually thinks of me, but he needs to know that comment isn't acceptable.

Amen.

The average coach if he's doing his job right is watching play to see what strategy he needs to employ. They only see us when we blow a whistle or don't blow one that they wanted us to blow. And it's the same for fans. They're watching the play, not the officials.

I's the same imo as me in the middle of a quadruple bypass telling the surgeon where he should place the stents.:)

Fixed it for ya.

Perhaps he should take a poll of the nurses?

Or, Mrs. JR?

That's fine, like I said, to me that is not a big attack on my integrity. His later statement certainly was. IMO, the first comment was vague and general while the second one was specific and personal. Would I have a problem if one of my partners T'd em for that? Not at all. We all have our hot buttons. (Personally, I LOATHE the Double Windshield Wiper Wave Off)
What I should have told him is "Why are you asking me? I am the one who called the only foul on the other team!!":D

is there a time limit on upgrading a personal foul to an intentional? i had a brutal game last saturday, boys jv where the foul was hard...double bonus situation. during the second thought i was wondering to myself if i should have called intentional. looking back, i know i should have.

There is no time frame (and no need for one), but you should make a call like that immediately or ASAP. It looks bad if you make the call then change it.

Peace