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But I think you made a mistake in giving the coach ANY explanation when he is that far out of the box. When I see the coach "running" down to the endline I'm giving him a two hand stop sign and telling him to get back in the box. Depending on how quickly it happens, I will say something like, "Coach, I'll give you an explanantion but you need to be in the box." And there is no justification for him grabbing your arm, no matter how gently he does it. And especially when he is that far out of his box. A coach even thinking they can run onto the court and question a call in this manner is unacceptable. I would have run him and not thought twice about it. |
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And the arm grab is just unacceptable in this situation, and really almost any situation. At the risk of sounding sexist and unprofessional we have a GV HC in my area that is over 6 ft tall and very attractive. She tends to question a lot of calls but always does so with a soft, almost flirty kind of voice. The whole thing is kind of wierd. When I do her games she may get away with a soft tug on the arm right in front of her bench but....again it's just a wierd situation and you can of have to let her know "Coach, you can't flirt your way to getting calls." But not in those words. Like I said, the whole thing is kind of wierd but I digress. Bottom line is, there is no justification for a coach to come "running" out of the box or to grab your arm. Do both of these things and a coach should be tossed, pretty much no questions asked. BTW- to the OP, you say you were on the endline. How close to his bench were you? I can understand the situation a little more if you were right by his bench and he came down the sideline. |
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Thanks for all the input everyone. I'm still kicking the situation around in my head.
I started the play on the opposite side of the lane from V's bench. The inbounder ran towards the bench when she committed the violation and I took a 3 or 4 steps in her direction when I made the call. I was about in the middle of the lane, maybe 25 ft away from the end of the V's bench. |
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And again, absolutely NO Way you should have given the coach ANY explanation at all when he is this clearly out of line. Like I said before, I know it's much easier in hindsight but you, and any official, really cant tolerate this kind of behavior. I'm not sure how experienced you are, but I know it took me a while to truly feel comfortble with issuing Ts and knowing how to respond to coaches who pull BS like this. You did stick him but I think a flagrant T is what was needed here. But we live and learn. Thanks for sharing this. |
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Hmmm...that's a long way to be onto the court and not get tossed - especially considering he grabbed you. I imagined you were near his sideline. |
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Yeah me too... save yourself some grief & provide no more details, YooperRef!
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No grief involved. As for the extra details, I was replying to a question from VaTerp as to my location on the floor. It was something I hadn't had happen before so I thought I'd run it by everyone. I just wanted some other points of view. I should have given him 2 T's. One for coming on the floor and one for the touch/response. Would have been some extra paperwork ![]() |
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Just Giving Him The Benefit Of The Doubt ...
Maybe for his day job he's a Transportation Security Administration (TSA) agent?
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yU.P.
In memory of Mick and also seeing where you (OP) are from! ![]()
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