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bob jenkins Wed Jan 12, 2011 02:35pm

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Originally Posted by GoodwillRef (Post 715022)
The risk being knocked over...ball hitting you...running into or falling over a coach (that is kneeling). This is not walking around the track at the gym or taking a walk in the park.

There's a risk / reward tradeoff in everything we do. Different people evaluate the two sides differently.

For YOU, the risks aren't worth the rewards. For HER, they seem to be. It's her (or their) decision. When you (or your wife / girlfriend / ...) get pregnant, you can make a different decision.

BktBallRef Wed Jan 12, 2011 02:36pm

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Originally Posted by GoodwillRef (Post 714999)
The question is when would you make your wife stop in the same situation.

Actually, no, that wasn't the question. You asked,

"My friend’s wife will be pregnant in her 8th month when our state playoffs start; he is also a referee and works with her. When, if at all would you make her stop working games?"

Mark Padgett Wed Jan 12, 2011 02:37pm

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Originally Posted by GoodwillRef (Post 714999)
They question is when would you make your wife stop in the same situation.

My wife would never officiate. It would get her hair messy.

BillyMac Wed Jan 12, 2011 02:38pm

Sorry Honey, You Just Do It Much Better Than Me ...
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by RichMSN (Post 715001)
I've mowed the lawn twice in the past 5 years and was told how terrible of a job I do.

That's an old trick. I did it with ironing. Do a horrible job. Never have to do it again. Husbands of the world, unite.

Also, I used to tell my kids that they could only help me with snowshovelling if they were good. Tom Sawyer revisited.

Mark Padgett Wed Jan 12, 2011 02:40pm

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Originally Posted by BillyMac (Post 715035)
That's an old trick. I did it with ironing. Do a horrible job. Never have to do it again. Husbands of the world, unite.

Just don't try it with sex. :rolleyes:

chartrusepengui Wed Jan 12, 2011 02:46pm

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Originally Posted by BktBallRef (Post 715032)
Actually, no, that wasn't the question. You asked,

"My friend’s wife will be pregnant in her 8th month when our state playoffs start; he is also a referee and works with her. When, if at all would you make her stop working games?"

Hmmmmm - hormones, pregnant wife, 8th month, me TELLING her anything ......

Nope - not gonna happen!! I value my own life. :D

Adam Wed Jan 12, 2011 02:54pm

I've rethought this. Since the little lady will be done reffing after she has a baby, I'd let her enjoy her little hobby as long as possible before the baby is born.

DesMoines Wed Jan 12, 2011 03:14pm

My wife's favorite Calvin strip
 
http://www.laferte.net/darryl/images...now-shovel.png

bainsey Wed Jan 12, 2011 03:40pm

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Originally Posted by chartrusepengui (Post 715039)
Hmmmmm - hormones, pregnant wife, 8th month, me TELLING her anything ......

Hmmm, wouldn't there be a greater chance of getting whacked from an official that's eight months pregnant? :eek:

26 Year Gap Wed Jan 12, 2011 04:07pm

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Originally Posted by RichMSN (Post 715001)
Female? Wisconsin? I'll look for her on TV.

I tried telling my wife not to mow the lawn when she was pregnant. Let's just say that didn't go over very well. And then her doc got in on the act and told me it was good exercise for her. I've mowed the lawn twice in the past 5 years and was told how terrible of a job I do. :D

Do you shovel snow badly, too?

just another ref Wed Jan 12, 2011 04:12pm

Y'all are leaving out the most important part.

Can she still wear a belt?

Rich Wed Jan 12, 2011 04:35pm

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Originally Posted by 26 Year Gap (Post 715077)
Do you shovel snow badly, too?

I don't shovel. I use a snowblower. And yes, she comes home from work and says it's not good enough and goes out and cleans up after me. :)

26 Year Gap Wed Jan 12, 2011 04:38pm

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Originally Posted by RichMSN (Post 715086)
I don't shovel. I use a snowblower. And yes, she comes home from work and says it's not good enough and goes out and cleans up after me. :)

I will have to try that with dishwashing....
btw in case there is a lurker from western MA, you should explain what a snow blower is.

Rich Wed Jan 12, 2011 04:42pm

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Originally Posted by 26 Year Gap (Post 715087)
I will have to try that with dishwashing....
btw in case there is a lurker from western MA, you should explain what a snow blower is.

Then we wouldn't be entertained by reports of "shoveling."

Adam Wed Jan 12, 2011 04:51pm

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Originally Posted by RichMSN (Post 715088)
Then we wouldn't be entertained by reports of "shoveling."

Yeah, that would be a huge loss.


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