Church League...Help me God!

I like the advice given to you so far. From the description, it sounds like an adult league?? If so, as previously mentioned you will more than likely be in over your head
But don't fret, the good official welcomes a good challege

From my experiences, if you act like you know what you're doing most of the time the players think you know what you're doing. Hopefully they will "buy your act" & you may possibly catch less grief... being the new guy & all.

Be strong (but calm) with your calls, use your voice in a firm, confident manner. Use good mechanics (5 sec t/i, 10 sec b/c, etc). Talk to the players like grown men instead of kids... this is a different animal.

Originally Posted by skeeter

What's the best way to handle arrogance and unsportsmanlike conduct that may come up. Should I immediately start throwing some T's in hope to get things settled down?

Arrogant players/coaches/partners... who cares! You cannot control that. Control what you can control.

Unsportsmanlike conduct must be dealt with, BUT (keep in mind) what's unsportsmanlike in 7th/8th grade games may/may not be unsportsmanlike worthy in adults games.

As previously mentioned, I wouldn't want to be Mr. T on your first night on the job, but at the same time don't take any crap either. With that said, less is more in our avocation but more so in that environment. If they argue a call, "I hear you. I understand. I'll look at at." have worked well for me, but in a youth game the players simply don't argue any calls with me
ie: T or not T worthy, depends on the level of play IMHO.


Hopefully, this opportunity will inspire you to grow as an official. I started out working kids games then progressed to adults, lower-level HS, varsity, and each new experience has fueled my passion for the craft! At the very least when you get back to your youth games, you should feel that it is easier to manage & your confidence should be way up.
BTW, welcome to the board!!