Technicals

[ref1bal]

I'm a bit confused lately.
When I hit someone with a technical not even mention eject someone, I always get the feeling when telling about it to my coleagues and/or regional managment that either:

A. That i'm a bad referee and if someone else was there their wouldn't be a need for T's.

B. I'm young an inexperienced and therefor hit T's too fast when They think I can solve the incident by talking it over.

It seems like they are looking for officals who don't make a mess (Hiting T's)

if you're an offical and can get a game over without hitting T's than you're a great Ref. but if you hit T's then you must have made a mess or called bad calls and therefor the game heated up.

Before each T' I call I get to think 10 times because "a Referee who calles T's is a Bad Referee"?

what do you people recommend? should I continue to do what I think is right no matter what the implications might me (quote from a team - "His a great Ref but we don't want him") or should I just get whatever I'm beeing thrown at?