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REFVA Thu Nov 15, 2007 04:29pm

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What are you talking about? WE aren't out there alone -- we don't like you either! It's just you refva. You out there all by yourself against the whole world. Rainmaker
Thanks Rainmaker, you made my day..:eek:

rainmaker Thu Nov 15, 2007 04:47pm

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Originally Posted by REFVA
Thanks Rainmaker, you made my day..:eek:

Well, I was totally joking, but I do see a serious point behind this joshing. I think having the attitude that everyone's out to get you makes it more difficult to have a good game. Even when they ARE out to get you (which I'm not sure they always are), usually there are ways to cut through the antagonistic stuff and have a more collaborative front. Especially coaches and players need to learn to see refs as being less enemies and more as neutral or objective. That attitude will grow more when you can have it, too. I'm not saying your feelings of paranoia are wrong, just that it's better for you to try to fight them.

REFVA Thu Nov 15, 2007 05:14pm

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Well, I was totally joking, but I do see a serious point behind this joshing. I think having the attitude that everyone's out to get you makes it more difficult to have a good game. Even when they ARE out to get you (which I'm not sure they always are), usually there are ways to cut through the antagonistic stuff and have a more collaborative front. Especially coaches and players need to learn to see refs as being less enemies and more as neutral or objective. That attitude will grow more when you can have it, too. I'm not saying your feelings of paranoia are wrong, just that it's better for you to try to fight them.
Today 04:29pm
Rainmaker
I understand your point, don't get me wrong most of the coaches know me well and have a very professional relationship on and off the court. Although there are some coaches that just have that wall no matter what.

Mark Padgett Thu Nov 15, 2007 05:27pm

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Originally Posted by Dan_ref
Did you know Bhuck Elics backwards spells Scile Kcuhb?

But what is it in metric??? :confused:

Adam Thu Nov 15, 2007 05:32pm

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Originally Posted by Mark Padgett
But what is it in metric??? :confused:

Just add a 'u' somewhere. You can choose where.

rockyroad Thu Nov 15, 2007 05:38pm

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Originally Posted by Dan_ref
Did you know Bhuck Elics backwards spells Scile Kcuhb?

Food for thought my friend...

Holy crap...Dan_Ref spelled backwards is Fer_Nad.

Glad that "e" isn't a "u" or rainmaker would be p!ssed!!:p

M&M Guy Thu Nov 15, 2007 05:43pm

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Originally Posted by rockyroad
Holy crap...Dan_Ref spelled backwards is Fer_Nad.

Glad that "e" isn't a "u" or rainmaker would be p!ssed!!:p

Wow, hell's gettin' crowded these days.

Dan_ref Thu Nov 15, 2007 05:46pm

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Originally Posted by rockyroad
Holy crap...Dan_Ref spelled backwards is Fer_Nad.

That's MR Fer_Nad to you, Daorykcor
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Glad that "e" isn't a "u" or rainmaker would be p!ssed!!:p
Wha...? Oh I get it... Revaeb!

Jurassic Referee Thu Nov 15, 2007 06:06pm

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Originally Posted by Dan_ref
Oh I get it... Revaeb!

Whoa!

Wait a minute there, Mr. Furry Nads. That's kinda looks like that misogny thingy that I've heard sooooooooooo much of lately. As Shakespeare(or was it me?) once said <i>"A revaeb by any other name......"</i>. And you know what happened to Shakespeare(and me).

Now you're in for it.

rainmaker Thu Nov 15, 2007 06:14pm

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Whoa!

Wait a minute there, Mr. Furry Nads. That's kinda looks like that misogny thingy that I've heard sooooooooooo much of lately. As Shakespeare(or was it me?) once said <i>"A revaeb by any other name......"</i>. And you know what happened to Shakespeare(and me).

Now you're in for it.

Well, not from me. Girls and boys in Oregon learn early on to deal with the 5th grade giggling that comes with the word "beaver". By the time we grow past the mental and emotional age of 12, it's pretty much gone. Of course, there are a few of us who never grow up... but that's more an item for pity and condescension than reprimand. You poor, poor little boys!

Jurassic Referee Thu Nov 15, 2007 06:26pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
Well, not from me. Girls and boys in Oregon learn early on to deal with the 5th grade giggling that comes with the word "beaver". By the time we grow past the mental and emotional age of 12, it's pretty much gone. Of course, there are a few of us who never grow up... but that's more an item for pity and condescension than reprimand. You poor, poor little boys!

Does that mean if I call Dan a "beaver", you won't get mad?:confused:

rainmaker Thu Nov 15, 2007 06:30pm

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Does that mean if I call Dan a "beaver", you won't get mad?:confused:

Why confused? Is that an insult? Is it belittling? Would Dan be a discredit to the state of Oregon? He can be a Beaver if he wants to!

Jurassic Referee Thu Nov 15, 2007 06:33pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
Why confused? Is that an insult? Is it belittling? Would Dan be a discredit to the state of Oregon? He can be a Beaver if he wants to!

Got it. <b>Beaver</b> is fine. Just trying to make sure that I know the rules.

Adam Thu Nov 15, 2007 06:34pm

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Got it. <b>Beaver</b> is fine. Just trying to make sure that I know the rules.

Don't get comfortable with them. They'll change in an instant.

rainmaker Thu Nov 15, 2007 06:35pm

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Got it. <b>Beaver</b> is fine. Just trying to make sure that I know the rules.

OOO, I get to set the rules!?!? Way cool! :D


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