Talking to Refs, Part 1

[JRutledge]

If an assistant comes to you with ligitimate question in a completely calm manner, I will talk to either the head coach or assistant during a timeout. If they approach me in a confrontational manner, I will not put up with anything any assistant has to say. My best line to use is, "who is my head coach?" After that the head coach steps up and I tell him or her, "You are the only person allowed to talk to me about anything." That usually shuts up the assistants and they get the messsage. It also covers my behind so if one of the assistants gets a T, the head coach knows why. Usually the higher the level, the better this is understood. But when you get to the JV and Freshman they do not seem to get this concept very well or did not realize that they have to keep the assistants mouths shut. I have no problem with T'ing a assistant, but fortunately have always solved the problem by my words or making it clear to the head coach that assistants are meant to be seen, not heard. Ya know, like children used to be before they started talking back to every adult they see fit. But that is another conversation.

Peace