It really does not matter what you say about these other issues, because it has nothing to do with the OP. If you do not like the direction of the responses, then you should have never created the thread in the first place. Once again you want to tell the world how you have the authority to do something and you cannot reference one rule to back up your claim. How about this, where is your rules reference?

For all you know the kid might have been a head case or a constant problem with his coach and his parents or parent. You have no idea and just because you think the coach was wrong do not mean that others that are close to the situation would not disagree. Then again you have described nothing the coach did that was abusive. Unless he called the kid a name or threatened him, not sure that is abusive. Then again you think gang violence has something to do with this issue, so I would not be surprised what you call abuse.

Peace