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JRutledge Tue Apr 24, 2007 01:16am

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Originally Posted by Snaqwells
Usually, when I've been approached by a player, it's very respectful. I can usually see some frustration, but it's always respectful. Must be a regional thing. :D

I do not think Colorado people are the same as Chi-town people. I think that would be a safe guess.

Peace

dblref Tue Apr 24, 2007 06:32am

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Originally Posted by JRutledge
I do not think Colorado people are the same as Chi-town people. I think that would be a safe guess.

Peace

Having spent the last week in Colorado Springs, and having spent a week in Chi-town last month, I definitely agree with your statement. Question is, which is the better?:D

mick Tue Apr 24, 2007 06:40am

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Originally Posted by dblref
Having spent the last week in Colorado Springs, and having spent a week in Chi-town last month, I definitely agree with your statement. Question is, which is the better?:D

One doesn't have to be better.
It's okay if they are merely different.

SmokeEater Tue Apr 24, 2007 07:44am

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Originally Posted by JRutledge
That always sounds great, but it is very rare if ever a player says "Sir" or comes to you without having an attitude of some kind.

Peace

Hypothetically speaking.

Player - "Mr Official, Sir."

Me - "Yes, ..."

Player - "May I make a request?"

Me - "Certainly"

Player - "I respectfully request you take your Head outta Your Azz and call a better game."

Me - " Thank You for being polite, tweet, Tehnical foul #24. Hows that for a start?"

Player - "Thank You, Sir. May I have some more?"

:D :D :D

bob jenkins Tue Apr 24, 2007 08:16am

[QUOTE=Jay R]
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Originally Posted by DC_Ref12
Okay, I'll bite. What's that?



Overly officious official.

Overly Officious Oaf.

Old School Tue Apr 24, 2007 08:28am

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Originally Posted by JRutledge
That always sounds great, but it is very rare if ever a player says "Sir" or comes to you without having an attitude of some kind.

Peace

It is not rare in my games. You must not be well respected in your area, either that or they are just plain scare to say anything to you for fear you might do the extreme. Not only do the high school players do this to me, but the wreck league adult players treat me like this as well. I always, even if it's a HS player, fan, assistant coach, respond back to this type of jester in kind. Another thing, everyone is sir or mam in my games. I think it's very important that we be people first and approachable. I also think this is where we separate the good from the great officials.

A wise man once said, in order to get respect, you have to give respect.
_______________
Long live David Stern....

Jurassic Referee Tue Apr 24, 2007 08:42am

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Originally Posted by Old School
1) It is not rare in my games. Not only do the high school players do this to me, but the wreck league adult players treat me like this as well.

2) I always, even if it's a HS player, fan, assistant coach, respond back to this type of <font color = red>jester</font> in kind.

1) Does that apply in your college games also?

2)Yup, from one <b>jester</b> to another......:D
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DC_Ref12 Tue Apr 24, 2007 08:43am

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
1) Does that apply in your college games also?

2)Yup, from one <b>jester</b> to another......:D

Why in the world do you feel a need to respond to every single one of his posts?

Old School Tue Apr 24, 2007 08:49am

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Originally Posted by SmokeEater
Hypothetically speaking.

Player - "Mr Official, Sir."

Me - "Yes, ..."

Player - "May I make a request?"

Me - "Certainly"

Player - "I respectfully request you take your Head outta Your Azz and call a better game.":D :D :D

Me: Maybe if you played a better game I might call a better game. Beep! Technical foul. Anything else you want to get off your chest?

Player: I felt you missed that call!

Me: I thought the defender played good defense on that one. We don't penalize good defense.

Player: Well call it on both ends!

Me: Will do!

Jurassic Referee Tue Apr 24, 2007 08:52am

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Originally Posted by DC_Ref12
Why in the world do you feel a need to respond to every single one of his posts?

Why in the world do you ask? Do you feel that <b>you</b> have the right to tell <b>anyone</b> on this forum what to post or not post, or when to post?

Just wondering where you're coming from.......

DC_Ref12 Tue Apr 24, 2007 09:00am

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Why in the world do you ask? Do you feel that <b>you</b> have the right to tell <b>anyone</b> on this forum what to post or not post, or when to post?

Just wondering where you're coming from.......

It just confuses me, to be honest. You express a complete disdain for anything and everything that spews forth from the mouth of OS, and yet you perpetually encourage him by constantly responding to his drivel.

Do you not see that you're only encouraging him?

I apologize if that comes across as harsh. I don't mean it to be.

Jurassic Referee Tue Apr 24, 2007 09:16am

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Originally Posted by DC_Ref12
Do you not see that you're only encouraging him?

Good point.

Unfortunately, I don't think that encouraging or discouraging him is relevant. He's gonna do what he's gotta do, no matter what.

I do have a short boiling point when it comes to some of his nonsense. The good thing is that it's a cold boiling point.:)

DC_Ref12 Tue Apr 24, 2007 09:19am

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
The good thing is that it's a cold boiling point.:)

LOL. :)

I hear ya.

M&M Guy Tue Apr 24, 2007 09:23am

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
I do have a short boiling point when it comes to some of his nonsense. The good thing is that it's a cold boiling point.:)

So, um, does that mean you're operating in a vaccum?

Jurassic Referee Tue Apr 24, 2007 09:26am

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Originally Posted by M&M Guy
So, um, does that mean you're operating in a vaccum?

No, in a vacuum......


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