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refnjoe Tue Dec 05, 2006 10:59am

a rough night
 
Had a rough game last night. Been fighting bad cold last few days, knew it would be tough personally. This is my first year, but was glad to know that my partner was a four year veteran.

I became concerned that experience may not be all that great when he started complaining before the game that he isn't working any varsity games yet. :rolleyes:

During the game, there were several sloppy incidents, but I will name two:

1) holding on B2, away from the ball, my call. I report to the table, table advises A is in bonus. Partner has A lined up for throw in. I communicate we're in the bonus, shooting 1-and-1. He runs up to me, says this is team control foul, no shots. I say its not team control on a defensive foul, he persists, so I tell him to report that to the table. He is veteran, and the R, so what else can I do?

2) had trouble with 2 players going at it all night, pushing back and forth. called a push on B1, a ball on throw in. away from ball, these 2 guys pushing again. DOUBLE FOUL. I report, partner is signaling for alternate possession. I didn't realize mistake (should have been point of interruption) until it was too late.

The main reason I am posting, other than double checking my understanding of above, is what are thoughts/comments about the wisdom of discussing this with assigning secretary? I certainly don't want to sound like a complainer or a know-it-all, but I do want to work with guys that they have confidence in, and know that I can learn from.

Partner is a good guy, and I have no problems getting along with him or anyone else. But, based on how things went in this game, I don't feel like I can take any of the insight that was offered me.

Is that something I should say or should I keep my mouth shut?

Thanks!

truerookie Tue Dec 05, 2006 11:10am

[QUOTE=refnjoe]Had a rough game last night. Been fighting bad cold last few days, knew it would be tough personally. This is my first year, but was glad to know that my partner was a four year veteran.

I became concerned that experience may not be all that great when he started complaining before the game that he isn't working any varsity games yet. :rolleyes:

Now we know why

During the game, there were several sloppy incidents, but I will name two:

1) holding on B2, away from the ball, my call. I report to the table, table advises A is in bonus. Partner has A lined up for throw in. I communicate we're in the bonus, shooting 1-and-1. He runs up to me, says this is team control foul, no shots. I say its not team control on a defensive foul, he persists, so I tell him to report that to the table. He is veteran, and the R, so what else can I do?

Line A up to shot their shots.

2) had trouble with 2 players going at it all night, pushing back and forth. called a push on B1, a ball on throw in. away from ball, these 2 guys pushing again. DOUBLE FOUL. I report, partner is signaling for alternate possession. I didn't realize mistake (should have been point of interruption) until it was too late.

IMO, this was allowed to go on too long. Double should have been called sooner.
The main reason I am posting, other than double checking my understanding of above, is what are thoughts/comments about the wisdom of discussing this with assigning secretary? I certainly don't want to sound like a complainer or a know-it-all, but I do want to work with guys that they have confidence in, and know that I can learn from.

Did you all do a pre-game conference before taking the floor. IMO, this could have eliminated some of the issues about rules?

refnjoe Tue Dec 05, 2006 11:18am

truerookie- you are probably right, a double may have served its purpose sooner. it did get the message across, however. And, kudos to the advice I had read on here before about that very issue. If it hadn't been for suggestions on here, I doubt I would have called it.

We did pregame, and not sure what else we could have done to prevent these issues. It may be that I said too much as it was- I let my partner know that I was having a rough night and let me know if he sees anything. Maybe that was suggesting to him that I wasn't going to be on top of things and he didn't need to listen to me... ?

Jurassic Referee Tue Dec 05, 2006 11:46am

[QUOTE=truerookie]
Quote:

Originally Posted by refnjoe

Did you all do a pre-game conference before taking the floor. IMO, this could have eliminated some of the issues about rules?

A pre-game conference isn't going to eliminate the problem of an official not knowing the rules in the first place.

truerookie Tue Dec 05, 2006 12:11pm

[QUOTE=Jurassic Referee]
Quote:

Originally Posted by truerookie
A pre-game conference isn't going to eliminate the problem of an official not knowing the rules in the first place.

JR, I look up to you. You are my unofficial MENTOR!:) I thought about that approach. I chose to take the pre-game approach to be safe. I did not want to be that blunt although I can be.:cool:

Dan_ref Tue Dec 05, 2006 12:54pm

[QUOTE=Jurassic Referee]
Quote:

Originally Posted by truerookie
A pre-game conference isn't going to eliminate the problem of an official not knowing the rules in the first place.

Hold on a second here. I understand there are some really big dawgs out there who take the minimun number of HS games to qualify for playoff games.

It's OK if they don't know the rules, aint it??

My buddy Scrapie sez it's OK.

Scrapper1 Tue Dec 05, 2006 01:20pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dan_ref
My buddy Scrapie sez it's OK.

Don't put words in my mouth. I'll just barf them back out at you. I haven't felt good since noon yesterday. Mostly better now, but I was miserable. Plus I have a 1.25 hr drive ahead of me for a game tonight. :(

jeffpea Tue Dec 05, 2006 02:15pm

refnjoe - I think you should contact your assignor and explain to him what happened. Be general in your comments and be ready to provide a specific example (like the foul on B2 away from the ball where your partner denied Team A FT's claiming it was a "team control foul"), if needed. You could close the phone call with something like: "since this is my first season working for you, how would you like for me to handle this situation if it occurs again?"

You certainly want to develop a realtionship with your assignor that communicates your competency, your responsibility, and your desire to improve/learn from experiences.

Don't think of this conversation as you being a "tattle tale", think of it as getting the advice of the assignor as to how to handle this in the future.

lpneck Tue Dec 05, 2006 02:45pm

Don't defer to him if he is wrong. (Important notice- you better be ABSOLUTELY sure that you are right since you're the rookie.)

You are complicit in screwing this up if you allow him to come in and pull rank when you know that he is wrong. You are also hurting your ability to advance. If I am working the varsity game, and see the JV officials do this, I am not exactly going to recommend either one to work a higher level game.

Here is how this conversation needs to go:

R: Wait, partner, there are no free throws! This was a team control foul!
U: No, I have a DEFENSIVE foul on RED 32. White is shooting a 1-and-1.
R: It was a foul away from the ball, we can't shoot free throws!
U: The team control foul rule is for fouls on OFFENSIVE players. We can't stand here and argue about it. White is shooting a 1-and-1 and I will take personal responsibility for any hot water we get into if I am wrong.

Then go to the baseline and administer the free throw. If your partner continues to make an issue of it after the game, call your assignor before you start your car so that he hears your side of the story first.

bigdogrunnin Tue Dec 05, 2006 03:16pm

The words, "Defensive Foul" should have ended this discussion. Obviously your co-official's head was NOT in the game. You can't let a "veteran" overrule you JUST because they are a veteran. I know guys that have been calling for 20+ years that are AWFUL, and I call with a guy that is already calling Varsity games in only his 2nd year. Years calling doesn't make you a great or knowledgeable official. The goal should always be to get the call right.

zebra44 Tue Dec 05, 2006 03:32pm

Nicely put, lpneck.....

rainmaker Tue Dec 05, 2006 05:39pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scrapper1
Don't put words in my mouth. I'll just barf them back out at you.

Sorry you're not feeling good, Scrapp-o. But save that barf for your game, you might need to puke on a coach's shoes. Flinging it at Dan seems like such a waste!

refnjoe Wed Dec 06, 2006 08:55am

Thanks for all the comments/suggestions. I certainly learned a lot from that game, and know that I will handle it differently if a similar situation arises in the future. One of my assigning secretaries advised me that, generally speaking, the calling official has the right to overrule, so it would have been acceptable for me to do as some suggested and line A up to shoot the 1-and-1.

I also know that I need to work on better communication with my partners.

I also know that these forums are helping to make me a better official!! :)

Ref_ Fred Wed Dec 06, 2006 03:02pm

refnjoe, To your comment. I agree you have a pool of very talented officials on the web. As a new official, and I say this very carefully where some may not agree with me. I'm not saying you don't want to report it to your assignor. Keep the politics always in the back of your mind and how it works in your association. Get some feedback from someone you know better than your partner and see how this works. i just get nervous about that. You may be pulling the trigger on not getting anymore varsity games.. Just IMO!

JRutledge Wed Dec 06, 2006 03:18pm

Find a mentor and talk to them about these situations first before you go reporting it to an assignor. Reporting something to the assignor should be your last resort. A mentor should be able to talk to you about who this official is and why they are working with you in this game. If you are a rookie, that must mean you are not working a very high level game. You are also talking about a 4 year guy. He is not that much more experienced than you are.

You need to always ask yourself when you work games with any partner, "Why are they working with me?" You can ask this question at any time and at any level. Sometimes they are there to save your behind from making mistakes to they are working the level you are at because they are not that good. This might help give you confidence when you know a rule is being kicked to take charge. You should have taken charge in this situation, but you had to go through this to realize this in the end.

Peace

refnjoe Wed Dec 06, 2006 03:38pm

Thanks JRut & Fred, I appreciate those thoughts.

I do have a couple friends that I know in my other professional life- one has been in my association for 10 years, and the other for about 5. I did run it by the 10-year vet and he gave me guidance on how I should approach the issue and who I should talk to. The advice that I got is that they would want me to say something.

Without getting into the details, I didn't take it to THE assigning secretary, but spoke to an assistant and a JV rep.

I also made it clear that I wasn't complaining. Rather, I asked them about the association's expectations of me and refrained from mentioning the day of the game, team names, or my partner's name.

Based on the response I got, it seemed that the advice I received was sound and I'm glad I spoke to them.

Old School Wed Dec 06, 2006 04:32pm

I'm not so sure I agree with everyone's thought pattern here. Pretty much everyone is saying stand your ground with a senior official. Go line up the players and shoot the 1 - 1 against your senior partners ruling. This does not sound like a verry wise thing to do, especially if you are a rookie. Not to mention, you don't want to stand out there arguing with your partner about a call. This makes both of you look stupid. Make a decision and move on. If you are not the R for the game, stand down and let the R make the decision. If it's the wrong thing to do, it is on the R and it will come back to him.

Since we do not know the R side of the story. I'm going to withhold judgement. However, I will say this, challenging a more senior partner could be detrimental to your career. Don't ever think it's okay to show up your partner like you have been advised to do here. That's like showing up your dad. Yea, you are right but..... If you are not the person responsible to make the decision, then yeild to that person. One day you will be that person and you will be the wisher.

The next thing you need to do in my opinion is call the person that assigned you the game. Get their advise about the play in question so that you can learn and let the assigner get back to the Referee of the game. If the R did something wrong, the assigner will get back to him. By doing this, you cover your bases.

Peace

jdw3018 Wed Dec 06, 2006 04:34pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
If you are not the person responsible to make the decision, then yeild to that person.

The problem is, you are the person responsible here. You're the calling official.

26 Year Gap Wed Dec 06, 2006 07:49pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
I'm not so sure I agree with everyone's thought pattern here. Pretty much everyone is saying stand your ground with a senior official. Go line up the players and shoot the 1 - 1 against your senior partners ruling. This does not sound like a verry wise thing to do, especially if you are a rookie. Not to mention, you don't want to stand out there arguing with your partner about a call. This makes both of you look stupid. Make a decision and move on. If you are not the R for the game, stand down and let the R make the decision. If it's the wrong thing to do, it is on the R and it will come back to him.

Since we do not know the R side of the story. I'm going to withhold judgement. However, I will say this, challenging a more senior partner could be detrimental to your career. Don't ever think it's okay to show up your partner like you have been advised to do here. That's like showing up your dad. Yea, you are right but..... If you are not the person responsible to make the decision, then yeild to that person. One day you will be that person and you will be the wisher.

The next thing you need to do in my opinion is call the person that assigned you the game. Get their advise about the play in question so that you can learn and let the assigner get back to the Referee of the game. If the R did something wrong, the assigner will get back to him. By doing this, you cover your bases.

Peace

I certainly hope that you are not mentoring people in your association. Should someone step in and change the other guy's calls because he is more senior even though the changed call is wrong? That is what you imply here.
btw, do you know anyone named JMO?

Back In The Saddle Wed Dec 06, 2006 09:27pm

Battle of wits with an unarmed partner
 
Your partner put you in a very unfortunate situation. You've got to decide whether to stand your ground, or let it go. No self-respecting, intelligent official wants to knowingly get a rule wrong. On the other hand, how much conflict with your partner will be required to get it right if he really wants to fight you on this? You've still got a game to manage and getting into a heated exchange with your partner while the world looks on isn't going to help that.

Old School Thu Dec 07, 2006 05:30am

Quote:

Originally Posted by 26 Year Gap
I certainly hope that you are not mentoring people in your association. Should someone step in and change the other guy's calls because he is more senior even though the changed call is wrong? That is what you imply here.

That is not what I am implying. As I stated, I'm withholding judgement because I was not there. The R did not change the officials call. The call was a foul on B2, this did not get changed. What got changed was the tables decision that we are now in the bonus. The R could have misread the scoreboard and thought the team foul count went to the other team, therefore, we are not shooting. I have made this mistake plenty of times. I have also seen the table credit this count to the wrong team.

My point simply was, let's not be so right that we rule out any other possibly and become defensive about our calls. This can lead to some nasty consequences of which nobody wins. I think as a society we are too quick to judge, especially when we don't have all the information.

I have had personal experience with a senior partner changing my call in the game, in a very BIG game. The point I want everyone to know, especially new officials to the trade. The show is not about us! The game must go on. No official can change another officials call. However, when officials disagree, now the burden switches to the R and the R is responsible to make a decision. All of you are responsible to move the game on. Get the ball back in play asap. Discuss the play at a timeout, after the game, or if bad enough, with the assigner after the game.

Peace

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 07:23am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
1) I have had personal experience with a senior partner changing my call in the game, <b>in a very BIG game</b>.

2) No official can change another officials call. <font color = red>However, when officials disagree, now the burden switches to the R and the R is responsible to make a decision.</font>

2) If no official can change another official's call, then how can the R subsequently change another official's call? :confused: Please cite the rule # where I may find that the R is responsible to make a decision when officials disagree. That statement seems to be directly contradicted by rule 2-6 and a statement found in case book 2.6SitA. I'll leave you to look those statements up in your rule book and case book and comment on why they completely contradict what you are saying.:)

refnrev Thu Dec 07, 2006 08:43am

Just remember your next game has got to get better! Also, in some areas where there is no shortage of officials not working V ball after 4 years is a very common thing. Or its very possible that your guy is not very good. You make the call!

Old School Thu Dec 07, 2006 09:18am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
If no official can change another official's call, then how can the R subsequently change another official's call? :confused: Please cite the rule # where I may find that the R is responsible to make a decision when officials disagree. That statement seems to be directly contradicted by rule 2-6 and a statement found in case book 2.6SitA. I'll leave you to look those statements up in your rule book and case book and comment on why they completely contradict what you are saying.:)

Based on what was reported here, the R didn't attempt to change a call. However, if the officials disagree, what would you recommend they do? Continue to argue about it until they come to blows. Referees are proud people, now you got two very proud people officiating this game and neither will give in on there position. What do you do next? Maybe it's not specifically stated in the rulebook but I would not have a problem with the R for the game making a decision and saying let's move on. The point being we got a decision, made by the Lead Official for the game and now we are going to move on.



Peace

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 09:37am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
However, if the officials disagree, what would you recommend they do?

What does the rule and case book <b>tell</b> the officials to do when they disagree?

Old School Thu Dec 07, 2006 09:48am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
What does the rule and case book <b>tell</b> the officials to do when they disagree?

It doesn't specifically.

rainmaker Thu Dec 07, 2006 09:51am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
It doesn't specifically.

oooo, wrong answer, OS, better hit that edit button fast or you're gonna get....


(insert appropriate gif here)

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 10:08am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
It doesn't specifically.

Um, no....

Again, the rules citations are NFHS rule 2-6 and case book play 2-6SITA-RULING. All you have to do is look them up in <b>your</b> rule book and case book, and tell me why those citations aren't relevant. I think that they are.

I await your response.

Old School Thu Dec 07, 2006 11:01am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Um, no....

Again, the rules citations are NFHS rule 2-6 and case book play 2-6SITA-RULING. All you have to do is look them up in <b>your</b> rule book and case book, and tell me why those citations aren't relevant. I think that they are.

I await your response.

No official has the authority to change another officials decision. JR, that's fine and dandy but disagreements do occur. It's a fact of life. Whether an official is suppose to or not, is not where this person is here today posting this situation, it is also not the real world. Maybe in the games you do this never happens, but in the games I have done, it has occasionally happened, and yes, there are some arrogant officials who will try and overrule your call and control the game. If you're unwilling to admit this never happens, than we are done talking. Just like it's a crime to steal. Just because the code of law says it's illegal doesn't mean it never happens. I've always approach the rulebook as a guide, not an absolute. Not everything is written that can possibly happen to you on the court. Now we got to deal with it. Just like if I walk in and catch a robber in my home. Sure, it should never happen because it's against the law, but guess what, it happens and I now got to deal with it because this thief is in my house right now.

Sh!t Happens

rainmaker Thu Dec 07, 2006 11:15am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
No official has the authority to change another officials decision. JR, that's fine and dandy but disagreements do occur. It's a fact of life. Whether an official is suppose to or not, is not where this person is here today posting this situation, it is also not the real world. Maybe in the games you do this never happens, but in the games I have done, it has occasionally happened, and yes, there are some arrogant officials who will try and overrule your call and control the game. If you're unwilling to admit this never happens, than we are done talking.

He didn't say it never happens. He asked you to cite what the rule book says to do when it does happen. He asked you to look it up. He even gave you references. So why not look it up and see what it says?

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 11:17am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
No official has the authority to change another officials decision. JR, that's fine and dandy but disagreements do occur. It's a fact of life. Whether an official is suppose to or not, is not where this person is here today posting this situation, it is also not the real world. Maybe in the games you do this never happens, but in the games I have done, it has occasionally happened, and yes, there are some arrogant officials who will try and overrule your call and control the game. If you're unwilling to admit this never happens, than we are done talking. Just like it's a crime to steal. Just because the code of law says it's illegal doesn't mean it never happens. I've always approach the rulebook as a guide, not an absolute. Not everything is written that can possibly happen to you on the court. Now we got to deal with it. Just like if I walk in and catch a robber in my home. Sure, it should never happen because it's against the law, but guess what, it happens and I now got to deal with it because this thief is in my house right now.

Sh!t Happens

Just can't seem to find your rule book and case book , can you?:)

Well, JMO, contrary to what you posted above, the R is <b>NOT</b> responsible to make a decision when officials disagree on a call in a situation like the one posted in this thread. I just wanted to make sure that any new or inexperienced officials reading your post didn't make the mistake of believing that your statement that he was might be correct.

rainmaker Thu Dec 07, 2006 11:18am

Section 2-5 is also helpful.

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 11:36am

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
Section 2-5 is also helpful.

Yup, it certainly is. It spells out the one very specific situation when the R can actually decide something if the officials do disagree( and if you don't count the timer/scorer as being officials <i>per se</i>). Unfortunately, Old School, that situation isn't the one that we're discussing though. Any idea what that situation is? Hint...look up NFHS rule 2-5-2.

Old School Thu Dec 07, 2006 11:42am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Just can't seem to find your rule book and case book , can you?:)

Well, JMO, contrary to what you posted above, the R is <b>NOT</b> responsible to make a decision when officials disagree on a call. I just wanted to make sure that any new or inexperienced reading your post didn't make the mistake of believing that statement might be correct.

I don't know who JMO is, and by the code of law you are correct. Now tell us what to do when officials disagree? Jump Ball? flip a coin? duke it out? What do we do genius?

I think any inexperienced official should not try and challenge the R on a ruling, even if he/she knows the R is wrong. That is a perfect recipe for disaster. Might take a long time to live that one down if not totally ruin the new official career for life.

Peace

rainmaker Thu Dec 07, 2006 11:49am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Old School
I don't know who JMO is, and by the code of law you are correct. Now tell us what to do when officials disagree? Jump Ball? flip a coin? duke it out? What do we do genius?

I think any inexperienced official should not try and challenge the R on a ruling, even if he/she knows the R is wrong. That is a perfect recipe for disaster. Might take a long time to live that one down if not totally ruin the new official career for life.

Peace

The book tells you clearly what to do when the officials disagree. What part of "No" don't you understand, genius?

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 12:00pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
Now tell us what to do when officials disagree? Jump Ball? flip a coin? duke it out? What do we do genius?

Old School, do you own a current NFHS rule and case book? Yes or no? If the answer is "yes", then all you have to do is look up the cites given to date in this thread. I've told you several times in different threads where to find rules citations saying that you are wrong in your assumptions, but you never seem to just go and look up those citations to see if I'm correct or not.

I don't want to get into a flame war with you, and it kinda looks like Bob really doesn't want me too either.:) But.....all you really had to do was look up the rules citations that I gave you, and you'd know exactly what the proper procedures to follow are when 2 officials disagree. And I can tell you that you won't find anything anywhere in there that I know of that states that the R can make a decision when 2 officials disagree, except for the one very specific situation that I also cited a rules reference for above--such situation not being relevant in any way to the situation that is being discussed in this thread.

My point is that if you don't own rule and case books, or if you don't know the rules, it's probably not really a good idea to try and answer rules-related questions.

Adam Thu Dec 07, 2006 12:16pm

Good grief. Here’s what you do. The calling official’s call stands. In this case, the calling official determined the penalty for the foul was bonus free throws. The R decided to overrule that call and have a spot throw-in instead. He overruled the other official, this is not allowed by rule.
In this case, when the officials disagree, the calling official makes the choice. It’s the same thing every time the officials disagree (OOB, fouls, etc.); except in one instance.

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 12:56pm

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Originally Posted by Snaqwells
Good grief. Here’s what you do. The calling official’s call stands. In this case, the calling official determined the penalty for the foul was bonus free throws. The R decided to overrule that call and have a spot throw-in instead. He overruled the other official, this is not allowed by rule.
In this case, when the officials disagree, the calling official makes the choice. It’s the same thing every time the officials disagree (OOB, fouls, etc.); except in one instance.

You are wise beyond your years, Snaqs.

You must be a Yankees fan.

And if both officials do happen to make a call at the same time, then they <b>must</b> decide between themselves what the final call will be- again except for the instance mentioned by Snaqs above and one other particular instance.

To sum up, for anybody that cares, because I get the feeling that OLD School isn't going to look it up for us...
- if the officials disagree about whether a basket should count or not, they get together and try to reach a consensus. If they can't, the R can then make the final decision- in <b>this</b> particular instance only. That's what Snaqs was referring to.
- if the timer and scorer(s) disagree on something, then the R can decide. The R can also correct obvious timing errors and bookkeeping mistakes.
- if 2 officials make different calls at approximately the same time on the same play, then they <b>must</b> decide between themselves which call they're going to go with. The R does <n>not</b> have the authority to make his own decision in a case like this. The exception to this is if each official called a foul on different players involved in the same play--i.e. on a block/charge. In this case, if the officials can't agree, then each player will be charged with a foul. Again though, the R can <b>not</b> step in and make a decision.

It ain't rocket science. It's just rules that you should know.

Old School Thu Dec 07, 2006 02:00pm

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Old School, do you own a current NFHS rule and case book? Yes or no?

Grow up....
Quote:

I've told you several times in different threads where to find rules citations saying that you are wrong in your assumptions, but you never seem to just go and look up those citations to see if I'm correct or not.
It's not what you say but how you say it.
Quote:

I don't want to get into a flame war with you, and it kinda looks like Bob really doesn't want me too either.:)
Then why do you continue to do it?
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But.....all you really had to do was look up the rules citations that I gave you, and you'd know exactly what the proper procedures to follow are when 2 officials disagree.
That rule citation does not address this poster original question or my scenario. As I told you before I have personal experience with this type of behavior. If you want to insist that this type of thing never happens, then okay. But please don't take this the wrong way, but, that just means you are not qualified to answer this question. If you want to say like most of the others here to stand your ground, going by the written word in the book that no official can overrule another officials decision. You just invited a rookie official, and it doesn't have to be a rookie official either, but you just invited an official to go to war with his partner right there face to face. Have you ever heard of 2 officials coming to blows, that right, fighting in a game? I have! This is the type of thing that can happen when 2 arrogant guys won't back down. Now what do you do genius? I notice you never answer that question? Okay, I think I need to say this. We already know who's right and who's wrong, rule 2.6, but what does that have to do with it? It's about the pride now, losing face, right and wrong got nothing to do with it now.

Let me say it like this. I asked several senior officials what they would do in my situation. One DI official told me he would walk off the floor and tell the guy he could call the rest of the game without me cause it's obvious he doesn't need me. Maybe one day when I'm established like him I can pull that stunt. Now I understand that that's the macho thing to do, but I also understand that if I walk off an assignment, I'm just as wrong as the official who changed my call, and I might not ever get assigned to a game like that again. My motto Mr. JR is live to fight another day. Do you mind if I share that with the others who might have been in the same boat as I. I said it like this; "You're the R for the game, we're not going to sit here and quibble over who's right or wrong, we got a game to call and finish, go over to the table and tell them what we've going to do, explain it to the coaches and let's move on." It's your hide not mined.

You would be surprised to learn what this assigner did after I told him what happen.

Smitty Thu Dec 07, 2006 02:06pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
Grow up....

It's not what you say but how you say it.

Then why do you continue to do it?

That rule citation does not address this poster original question or my scenario. As I told you before I have personal experience with this type of behavior. If you want to insist that this type of thing never happens, then okay. But please don't take this the wrong way, but, that just means you are not qualified to answer this question. If you want to say like most of the others here to stand your ground, going by the written word in the book that no official can overrule another officials decision. You just invited a rookie official, and it doesn't have to be a rookie official either, but you just invited an official to go to war with his partner right there face to face. Have you ever heard of 2 officials coming to blows, that right, fighting in a game? I have! This is the type of thing that can happen when 2 arrogant guys won't back down. Now what do you do genius? I notice you never answer that question? Okay, I think I need to say this. We already know who's right and who's wrong, rule 2.6, but what does that have to do with it? It's about the pride now, losing face, right and wrong got nothing to do with it now.

Let me say it like this. I asked several senior officials what they would do in my situation. One DI official told me he would walk off the floor and tell the guy he could call the rest of the game without me cause it's obvious he doesn't need me. Maybe one day when I'm established like him I can pull that stunt. Now I understand that that's the macho thing to do, but I also understand that if I walk off an assignment, I'm just as wrong as the official who changed my call, and I might not ever get assigned to a game like that again. My motto Mr. JR is live to fight another day. Do you mind if I share that with the others who might have been in the same boat as I. I said it like this; "You're the R for the game, we're not going to sit here and quibble over who's right or wrong, we got a game to call and finish, go over to the table and tell them what we've going to do, explain it to the coaches and let's move on." It's your hide not mined.

You would be surprised to learn what this assigner did after I told him what happen.

All of this and the vast majority of what this poster says is nonsense. It is detrimental to the forum and I would ask that this poster be removed from the forum. He is helping no one - most importantly newer officials who are looking for real help with this job. Enough is enough. Moderators - please do something about this guy.

rainmaker Thu Dec 07, 2006 02:18pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
Grow up....

It's not what you say but how you say it.

Then why do you continue to do it?

That rule citation does not address this poster original question or my scenario.

As I told you before I have personal experience with this type of behavior. If you want to insist that this type of thing never happens, then okay. But please don't take this the wrong way, but, that just means you are not qualified to answer this question. If you want to say like most of the others here to stand your ground, going by the written word in the book that no official can overrule another officials decision. You just invited a rookie official, and it doesn't have to be a rookie official either, but you just invited an official to go to war with his partner right there face to face. Have you ever heard of 2 officials coming to blows, that right, fighting in a game? I have! This is the type of thing that can happen when 2 arrogant guys won't back down. Now what do you do genius? I notice you never answer that question? Okay, I think I need to say this. We already know who's right and who's wrong, rule 2.6, but what does that have to do with it? It's about the pride now, losing face, right and wrong got nothing to do with it now.

Let me say it like this. I asked several senior officials what they would do in my situation. One DI official told me he would walk off the floor and tell the guy he could call the rest of the game without me cause it's obvious he doesn't need me. Maybe one day when I'm established like him I can pull that stunt. Now I understand that that's the macho thing to do, but I also understand that if I walk off an assignment, I'm just as wrong as the official who changed my call, and I might not ever get assigned to a game like that again. My motto Mr. JR is live to fight another day. Do you mind if I share that with the others who might have been in the same boat as I. I said it like this; "You're the R for the game, we're not going to sit here and quibble over who's right or wrong, we got a game to call and finish, go over to the table and tell them what we've going to do, explain it to the coaches and let's move on." It's your hide not mined.

You would be surprised to learn what this assigner did after I told him what happen.

What you're asking is what to do if the "established guy" tries to pull rank and insist on overruling you, you finish the game as best you can and then you report to the assignor that you don't want to work with him again and why. But none of that has anything to do with what the OP posted, or with what JR was talking about.

What JR was talking about was the rules as published, and the books where those rules are printed. You have never given any indication that you even care about the books, or the rules. What you do in a certain situation is completely irrelevant to the OP. You just set up a straw man (do you know what that means?) and then knock it over, but you don't address the original situation.

The OP asked, "He's the veteran, what else could I do?" JR is telling him what the rules say about what OP could have done. You have your own opinions, but so what? As officials we follow rules as written, with some flexibility within what's prescribed.

What OP could have done was to go to the table and say, "I called such and so, and that's what we're going to do" and then go to the appropriate place and get play started. If partner is *** enough to try to overrule at that point, then you let him be the one that walks away or stops the game inappropriately. Arguing is pointless. For the OP to stand up for himself and be firm isn't starting a war. It isn't either "my way or the highway" for the R. The U can stand firm without coming to blows, and that's what the rule book prescribes.

It's really not this complicated, at least, it doesn't need to be.

rainmaker Thu Dec 07, 2006 02:20pm

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Originally Posted by Smitty
All of this and the vast majority of what this poster says is nonsense. It is detrimental to the forum and I would ask that this poster be removed from the forum. He is helping no one - most importantly newer officials who are looking for real help with this job. Enough is enough. Moderators - please do something about this guy.

I'm not sure I agree. This discussion gives newbies, and others, a chance to see wrong opinions and wrong attitudes in action. The smart ones won't need to learn some of these lessons the hard way.

Smitty Thu Dec 07, 2006 02:25pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
I'm not sure I agree. This discussion gives newbies, and others, a chance to see wrong opinions and wrong attitudes in action. The smart ones won't need to learn some of these lessons the hard way.

If he even occasionally came up with something useful I might think the same way, but it appears that he only posts to ruffle feathers. There is nothing he says that is even remotely correct or useful. He is, in every sense of the word, a troll. It is dangerous to newbies. There is enough debate and conversation for people to see wrong interpretations based on logical thoughts.

Old School Thu Dec 07, 2006 03:18pm

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Originally Posted by Smitty
What does that even mean? This guy is bringing the effectiveness of this forum down a few notches.

Smitty, when you say I bring the forum down a notch, was exactly to you mean? Never mind, don't answer that.

M&M Guy Thu Dec 07, 2006 03:35pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
Smitty, when you say I bring the forum down a notch, was exactly to you mean? Never mind, don't answer that.

Ok, then I will.

You have made different statements over the course of your time registered as Old School that cannot be backed up by rule or case play. Most, if not all of the people that come here are looking for advice and discussion based upon the knowledge of the others. Since you have been free in posting your advice, it would be helpful for the others to know a few things about you.

First, do you officiate basketball?
Second, what levels do you currently officiate?
Third, what qualifications do you have, or organizations do you belong to that help elevate your knowledge as an official?

Once we find out the legitimate answers to these questions, you may (or may not) have less hostility directed towards your responses.

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 04:07pm

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Originally Posted by M&M Guy
First, do you officiate basketball?
Second, what levels do you currently officiate?
Third, what qualifications do you have, or organizations do you belong to that help elevate your knowledge as an official?

Once we find out the legitimate answers to these questions, you may (or may not) have less hostility directed towards your responses.

You left out:
Fourth: Do you own a current NFHS rules and case book?

I can't possibly think of any other way that you can properly and correctly answer rules-related questions without them.

And that has nothing to do with flaming either.

zakman2005000 Thu Dec 07, 2006 04:19pm

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Originally Posted by Back In The Saddle
Your partner put you in a very unfortunate situation. You've got to decide whether to stand your ground, or let it go. No self-respecting, intelligent official wants to knowingly get a rule wrong. On the other hand, how much conflict with your partner will be required to get it right if he really wants to fight you on this? You've still got a game to manage and getting into a heated exchange with your partner while the world looks on isn't going to help that.

This seems to be the $64,000 question in the sitch of the OP. How far do you go when you know that your position is correct?

rockyroad Thu Dec 07, 2006 05:17pm

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Originally Posted by zakman2005000
This seems to be the $64,000 question in the sitch of the OP. How far do you go when you know that your position is correct?

#1) Protect the integrity of the game
#2) Protect the integrity of the participants
#3) Protect the integrity of your crew

#1 is way more important than #3...go as far as you need to to protect the game.

Old School Thu Dec 07, 2006 05:25pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
You have never given any indication that you even care about the books, or the rules. What you do in a certain situation is completely irrelevant to the OP. You just set up a straw man (do you know what that means?) and then knock it over, but you don't address the original situation.

I respectively disagree. I take offense to anyone who tries to shove it down my throat, or discredit me like JR does. Setting up the straw analogy is pretty good, thank you. I try to speak thru example, lead thru example because I've been there. There is some benefit to be learned thru the trials, errors and experiences of others. You are right about one thing. I do not care what others who wish only to discredit me, think.

I also think it's over the top to silence another who views and opinions are different from yours. This is suppose to be America. One last thing. I do not thing the book goes far enough on the issue of when referee's disagree. What if both referees feel they are right? True, calling official has presidence over the call, but homer ref who's also the R doesn't let it go? In a situation like this, you are now outside the boundaries of the rulebook. Maybe it doesn't happen in the world you ref in, but I have seen it happen.

A wise man once said, people who live in glass house should not throw stones.

zakman2005000 Thu Dec 07, 2006 05:28pm

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Originally Posted by rockyroad
#1) Protect the integrity of the game
#2) Protect the integrity of the participants
#3) Protect the integrity of your crew

#1 is way more important than #3...go as far as you need to to protect the game.


Just so I understand you, are you saying that it's more important to get the administration correct and potentially "air dirty laundry" for all to see, or go with an incorrect administration and not cause a scene. Not trolling, just interested in getting a clarification.

I think this is an interesting situation and I am glad that I know my partners well enough that all it would take is, "I'm 100% sure on this and I'll take the heat if I'm not".

rainmaker Thu Dec 07, 2006 05:37pm

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Originally Posted by zakman2005000
Just so I understand you, are you saying that it's more important to get the administration correct and potentially "air dirty laundry" for all to see, or go with an incorrect administration and not cause a scene. Not trolling, just interested in getting a clarification.

I think this is an interesting situation and I am glad that I know my partners well enough that all it would take is, "I'm 100% sure on this and I'll take the heat if I'm not".

The problem is that there's a false dichotomy set up here. This isn't an either/or situation.

Of course if the partner gets nasty and starts yelling and gesticulating, you back down.


But that's not generally the problem. Generally, the newer, less experienced ref (who is also generally not the R) isn't sure whether to insist on his way, or not. When we say here that the R does not have the right to overrule the U, we're saying that the U needs to learn how to appropriately assert his own call, and administer it in a reasonable fashion.

Whoever calls something has the right to go ahead and administer that call. No one has the right to overrule. If the "more experienced" ref tries to step in and insist on overruling, then the other calling official needs to know how to assert himself in an appropirate manner. It can be done. And it doesn't have to lead to blows or yelling.

If I make a call and my partner insists on being obnoxious, I might back down for the sake of protecting the integrity of the game, or I might stand firm for the sake of the integrity of the game. Either way, I'm gonna report the idiot. And I have.

What OP needs to know, is that yelling, fighting in public scenario isn't all that common, and it's not something that needs to be worried about. If OP will calmly but firmly manage the situation and assert his own correctness (even when he's wrong!), 90% (or more!) of partners will cope with it, and back down. Which is, btw, the right thing to do.

rockyroad Thu Dec 07, 2006 05:38pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by zakman2005000
Just so I understand you, are you saying that it's more important to get the administration correct and potentially "air dirty laundry" for all to see, or go with an incorrect administration and not cause a scene. Not trolling, just interested in getting a clarification.

I think this is an interesting situation and I am glad that I know my partners well enough that all it would take is, "I'm 100% sure on this and I'll take the heat if I'm not".


Protect the integrity of the game...doesn't need to involve any "airing" of anything...just do what needs to be done so the game is administered correctly...if the partner is screwing it up, don't back down just because he/she has more experience...

Jurassic Referee Thu Dec 07, 2006 05:51pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
I take offense to anyone who tries to shove it down my throat, or discredit me like JR does.

Gee, all I did was ask you if you actually owned an NFHS rule and case book. That was so I could cite actual rules and case plays during our debates for you to check for accuracy. That's usually how we debate rules-related questions on this forum.

Soooooo......do you own a current NFHS ruleand case book? How about the <b>OFFICIALS MANUAL</b> if a mechanics question pops up?

BTW, JMO always....:)

bob jenkins Fri Dec 08, 2006 09:40am

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Originally Posted by rockyroad
Protect the integrity of the game...doesn't need to involve any "airing" of anything...just do what needs to be done so the game is administered correctly...if the partner is screwing it up, don't back down just because he/she has more experience...

Agreed. But what if both officials are "110% sure" that their position / interpretation is correct and is the one that upholds the "integrity of the game?" That's the original question.

What if neither is sure (see the thread on foul-whistle-horn-shot for example)?

What if there's (legitimately) a double (or triple) whistle and the officials disagree?

rockyroad Fri Dec 08, 2006 10:35am

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Originally Posted by bob jenkins
Agreed. But what if both officials are "110% sure" that their position / interpretation is correct and is the one that upholds the "integrity of the game?" That's the original question.

What if neither is sure (see the thread on foul-whistle-horn-shot for example)?

What if there's (legitimately) a double (or triple) whistle and the officials disagree?

That's why the game "Rock, Paper, Scissors" was invented!

Old School Fri Dec 08, 2006 10:38am

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Gee, all I did was ask you if you actually owned an NFHS rule and case book. That was so I could cite actual rules and case plays during our debates for you to check for accuracy. That's usually how we debate rules-related questions on this forum.

Soooooo......do you own a current NFHS ruleand case book? How about the <b>OFFICIALS MANUAL</b> if a mechanics question pops up?

BTW, JMO always....

JR, you can continue to play your games as long as you want. Just remember, people who live in glass houses, should not throw stones. If you want to make this about my rulebook, then go right ahead, I can't stop you, but I can say this. What does the fact that I got a rulebook or not have to do with the question the original poster asked? And also, the answer was not in the rulebook. We all know that neither official can change another officials call, what we didn't know, or what I didn't know and yes, I enhanced the original poster question to what to do when the other official won't back down? That was the issue for me, and that was the question I needed answered.

It took me over 4 pages to get to this point because you kept trying to change the subject and make my point about something that's not important. I call this the art of deception and you are very good at it. You are no different than the coaches and irate fans. I take it all in and I stay focus on the task at hand. I never lose focus on what I am trying to accomplish, now do I? I've already had one person who says I should be kicked off this forum. I can not tell you how many fans have said this to me in one way or the other in my career but I keep pushing on, inspite of and in the face of all this opposition.

Love me or hate me, but I'm a true official for life.

Peace, and BTW, who the heck is JMO?

tjones1 Fri Dec 08, 2006 10:42am

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Originally Posted by Old School
Peace, and BTW, who the heck is JMO?

Just My Opinion

rainmaker Fri Dec 08, 2006 10:50am

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Originally Posted by Old School
I call this the art of deception and you are very good at it. You are no different than the coaches and irate fans. I take it all in and I stay focus on the task at hand. I never lose focus on what I am trying to accomplish, now do I? I've already had one person who says I should be kicked off this forum. I can not tell you how many fans have said this to me in one way or the other in my career but I keep pushing on, inspite of and in the face of all this opposition.

Nobody's opposing you personally. What we're opposed to is your refusal to listen to what everyone is saying. JR's not deceiving you, regardless of what you call it. He is in fact much different from the coaches and irate fans. You are indeed staying focused on the task at hand, but that task has nothing to do with good officiating. It has to do with being obnoxious and difficult.

And that still doesn't answer the question of whether you own a rule book and a case book, and what levels of ball you work, and what officiating affiliations you have.

Old School Fri Dec 08, 2006 11:34am

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
Nobody's opposing you personally. What we're opposed to is your refusal to listen to what everyone is saying.

You make my point. There are referee's like this who stick to there call or position, no matter what. We are all the same, stubborn, stick to our positions. Now what happens when neither of us will let it go? This is my point.
Quote:

You are indeed staying focused on the task at hand, but that task has nothing to do with good officiating. It has to do with being obnoxious and difficult.
And you're not? Perhaps you need to look in the mirror.

rainmaker Fri Dec 08, 2006 11:41am

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Originally Posted by Old School
You make my point. There are referee's like this who stick to there call or position, no matter what. We are all the same, stubborn, stick to our positions. Now what happens when neither of us will let it go? This is my point.

And you're not? Perhaps you need to look in the mirror.

I am the mother of four children, three of them grown (and one little caboose baby who is on prednisone at the moment.) I know obnoxious and difficult when I see it, and I"ve seen a lot of it!! Yesterday, you sounded like a 12-year-old who's backed into a corner, and has neither the wisdom to talk your way out, nor the maturity to give in. Today you sound like an 8-year-old who is reduced to repeating the same tired phrase over and over again, without any consideration of the reality of the situation. The only question remaining is whether you can maintain that level, or if you'll sink further still.

Moderators, it's time to close this thread, preferably before OS gets the last word!!

Jurassic Referee Fri Dec 08, 2006 01:12pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
JR, you can continue to play your games as long as you want. If you want to make this about my rulebook, then go right ahead, I can't stop you, but I can say this. What does the fact that I got a rulebook or not have to do with the question the original poster asked? And also, the answer was not in the rulebook. We all know that neither official can change another officials call, what we didn't know, or what I didn't know and yes, I enhanced the original poster question to what to do when the other official won't back down? That was the issue for me, and that was the question I needed answered.

Again, JMO, you posted re: the original post--that if the officials can't agree in a situation like the original post, then the R decides. That statement was completely wrong , as per the rules that I cited. You continued to argue otherwise instead of simply picking up your rule/case books and checking the references. And this is certainly not the first time that you have done something like this on other subjects also. You have been asked before what is contained in a rules citation or case book play, and you <b>always</b> dodge the answer. That certainly leads me to the conclusion that you do not possess current rules and case books. You also adamantly refuse to answer whether you actually do have books. I hate to break this too, and this really isn't a flame, but the <b>only</b> conclusion that logically can be reached is that you are <b>NOT</b> an official <i>per se</i>. If you are are just a fanboy passing through, then post away. But please don't post obviously incorrect rules information that you have no backing for. That does more harm than good when it comes to the new or inexperienced officials that are trying to learn and improve by reading this forum.

And again, quite obviously <b>JMO</b>.

refnjoe Fri Dec 08, 2006 01:43pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
This makes both of you look stupid. Make a decision and move on. If you are not the R for the game, stand down and let the R make the decision. If it's the wrong thing to do, it is on the R and it will come back to him.

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Originally Posted by Old School
challenging a more senior partner could be detrimental to your career. Don't ever think it's okay to show up your partner like you have been advised to do here.

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Originally Posted by Old School
The next thing you need to do in my opinion is call the person that assigned you the game.

My post just before this one states that I did check in with not one, but THREE senior officials. One is a mentor. One is the JV rep on our exec board, and the other is the Asst. Signing Secretary who is my point of contact regarding assignments.

Their unanimous advice is the opposite of yours. As the calling official, it is my responsibility to administer the penalty. This wasn't a judgment call or an error in foul count for the bonus, etc. as you had suggested earlier, this was KICKING A RULE. They all said I should have lined up the shooter and shot the one and one.

I was advised that if an evaluator had been present, or a coach complained about this incident, the R would have been suspended, and chances are I would have been as well.

The best advice they gave me was to be confident enough to be sure of what I KNOW, and to admit when I don't know. That way, I know when to be firm and when to let experience prevail.

Old School Fri Dec 08, 2006 02:30pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
I am the mother of four children, three of them grown (and one little caboose baby who is on prednisone at the moment.) I know obnoxious and difficult when I see it, and I"ve seen a lot of it!!

I have too, except I see it on the court, fans, coaches, losing players, etc.

Quote:

Yesterday, you sounded like a 12-year-old who's backed into a corner, and has neither the wisdom to talk your way out, nor the maturity to give in. Today you sound like an 8-year-old who is reduced to repeating the same tired phrase over and over again, without any consideration of the reality of the situation. The only question remaining is whether you can maintain that level, or if you'll sink further still. Moderators, it's time to close this thread, preferably before OS gets the last word!!
What does this have to do with the subject we are discussing? Are we a little off-track here or is it you can't articulate your position and now you are digressing to insults. Now who's the child?

Peace

Adam Fri Dec 08, 2006 02:39pm

And we'll throw some projection in just for fun. :D

Jurassic Referee Fri Dec 08, 2006 02:44pm

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Originally Posted by refnjoe

The best advice they gave me was to be confident enough to be sure of what I KNOW, and to admit when I don't know. That way, I know when to be firm and when to let experience prevail.

You also learned <b>never</b> to listen to <b>non-officials</b> who <b>don't</b> own rule books.:)

rainmaker Fri Dec 08, 2006 03:03pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
What does this have to do with the subject we are discussing? Are we a little off-track here or is it you can't articulate your position and now you are digressing to insults. Now who's the child?

I think I've articulated my position pretty clearly. Have you read these posts?

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
What you're asking is what to do if the "established guy" tries to pull rank and insist on overruling you, you finish the game as best you can and then you report to the assignor that you don't want to work with him again and why. But none of that has anything to do with what the OP posted, or with what JR was talking about.

What JR was talking about was the rules as published, and the books where those rules are printed. You have never given any indication that you even care about the books, or the rules. What you do in a certain situation is completely irrelevant to the OP. You just set up a straw man (do you know what that means?) and then knock it over, but you don't address the original situation.

The OP asked, "He's the veteran, what else could I do?" JR is telling him what the rules say about what OP could have done. You have your own opinions, but so what? As officials we follow rules as written, with some flexibility within what's prescribed.

What OP could have done was to go to the table and say, "I called such and so, and that's what we're going to do" and then go to the appropriate place and get play started. If partner is *** enough to try to overrule at that point, then you let him be the one that walks away or stops the game inappropriately. Arguing is pointless. For the OP to stand up for himself and be firm isn't starting a war. It isn't either "my way or the highway" for the R. The U can stand firm without coming to blows, and that's what the rule book prescribes.

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
The problem is that there's a false dichotomy set up here. This isn't an either/or situation.

Of course if the partner gets nasty and starts yelling and gesticulating, you back down.

But that's not generally the problem. Generally, the newer, less experienced ref (who is also generally not the R) isn't sure whether to insist on his way, or not. When we say here that the R does not have the right to overrule the U, we're saying that the U needs to learn how to appropriately assert his own call, and administer it in a reasonable fashion.

Whoever calls something has the right to go ahead and administer that call. No one has the right to overrule. If the "more experienced" ref tries to step in and insist on overruling, then the other calling official needs to know how to assert himself in an appropirate manner. It can be done. And it doesn't have to lead to blows or yelling.

If I make a call and my partner insists on being obnoxious, I might back down for the sake of protecting the integrity of the game, or I might stand firm for the sake of the integrity of the game. Either way, I'm gonna report the idiot. And I have.

What OP needs to know, is that yelling, fighting in public scenario isn't all that common, and it's not something that needs to be worried about. If OP will calmly but firmly manage the situation and assert his own correctness (even when he's wrong!), 90% (or more!) of partners will cope with it, and back down. Which is, btw, the right thing to do.


Old School Fri Dec 08, 2006 04:40pm

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
Again, JMO, you posted re: the original post--that if the officials can't agree in a situation like the original post, then the R decides. That statement was completely wrong , as per the rules that I cited.

I don't disagree with this statement JR, however, my point is this. I don't want an official who's been working for a short period of time, or who does not have the experience of a senior official, to think he knows more than someone who's been doing it longer. If in doubt yield. In this particular case, the R was wrong, but, realistically speaking, how often is that going to happen? More times than not, the R or senior official will know more and new or younger officials need to stand down to the person with more seniority. Rule knowledge which is what you advocate is the key to knowing whether one is right or wrong. I just don't want to be working with a new guy and he thinks he's 110% correct on a call, and I know he's not, I'm the R and I can't get him to let it go. This has happen too, and as a assigner, when I run into pig headed new officials like this, you can believe they don't get no more assignments from me. You see, nobody mention this! The human side of the equation. You gave us the book side JR, which is correct and I stand down to that. BUT!!! Big but, there's two sides to every coin. I'm just approaching it from a different prospective. Some of you really need to learn how to think outside the box. Seriously....
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You continued to argue otherwise instead of simply picking up your rule/case books and checking the references.
How do you know this? Are you 100% sure? How much money would you be willing to put down on this statement?
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I hate to break this too, and this really isn't a flame, but the <b>only</b> conclusion that logically can be reached is that you are <b>NOT</b> an official <i>per se</b>.
Please explain whether or not I'm an official has to do with this topic? Are we having a hard time focusing, staying on point?

Peace

M&M Guy Fri Dec 08, 2006 04:44pm

Old School - good to see you back.

Did you see my post earlier?:

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Originally Posted by M&M Guy
First, do you officiate basketball?
Second, what levels do you currently officiate?
Third, what qualifications do you have, or organizations do you belong to that help elevate your knowledge as an official?

Once we find out the legitimate answers to these questions, you may (or may not) have less hostility directed towards your responses.


M&M Guy Fri Dec 08, 2006 04:58pm

Huh.

He disappeared again.

Jurassic Referee Fri Dec 08, 2006 04:59pm

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Originally Posted by Old School

How do you know this? Are you 100% sure? How much money would you be willing to put down on this statement?

I'd bet my life.

It's not hard to separate the real, live bonafide officials from the...well....non-officials. It's kinda basic that <b>real</b> officials would have the proper and appropriate rule books. You don't, do you?

You, sir, are <b>not</b> an official.

<b>JMO!!</b>

rockyroad Fri Dec 08, 2006 05:27pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
I don't want an official who's been working for a short period of time, or who does not have the experience of a senior official, to think he knows more than someone who's been doing it longer. If in doubt yield. In this particular case, the R was wrong, but,


Peace

But you do want senior officials who screw up rules and foul administration and won't listen to anyone who tries to tell them they are wrong??!! Wow... in this particular case the R was dead wrong, but by your standard that doesn't matter because he's the senior, more experienced guy and the younger, less-experienced guy should just go with what the senior, more experienced guy says...that's assinine.

MadCityRef Fri Dec 08, 2006 05:34pm

Now you have learned the supreme lesson of officiating: Experience does not equal talent. Wait 'til you work with the 30-year veteran who can't ref his way out of a wet paper bag. -And makes all of your calls for you.- That will be a fun night.
In talking with your assignor, phrase the experience using yourself as the example. "I wonder if I handled this right." I, I, I.
Don't offer specifics until asked for them. Then get out of the way.

Jurassic Referee Fri Dec 08, 2006 06:59pm

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Originally Posted by MadCityRef
Now you have learned the supreme lesson of officiating: Experience does not equal talent.

In <b>all</b> instances?

Lah me.....:rolleyes:

Old School Sun Dec 10, 2006 08:04am

So many questions, so little time.
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Originally Posted by M&M Guy
Old School - good to see you back.Did you see my post earlier? Huh. He disappeared again.

M&M, about what time Friday did I disappear? What do you think I had to go do? Babysit my 12 years old? No, my kids are grown.

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Originally Posted by Jurassic Referee
I'd bet my life. It's not hard to separate the real, live bonafide officials from the...well....non-officials. It's kinda basic that <b>real</b> officials would have the proper and appropriate rule books. You don't, do you? You, sir, are <b>not</b> an official. <b>JMO!!</b>

And you sir, would lose your life. You remind me of the gambler who was up a million dollars and couldn't walk away. Then bet all his earnings and walk out with nothing. My question to you. Was it worth it?

Since you insist on tagging me with this JMO label. Perhaps, I should change my moniker to JMO.

Jurassic Referee Sun Dec 10, 2006 08:20am

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Originally Posted by Old School

Since you insist on tagging me with this JMO label. Perhaps, I should change my moniker to JMO.

JMO would be a very appropriate moniker for you, JMO.

I also believe that you didn't answer any of M&M's questions. Any particular reason for that...um...lapse?:D

Old School Sun Dec 10, 2006 08:44am

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Originally Posted by rockyroad
But you do want senior officials who screw up rules and foul administration and won't listen to anyone who tries to tell them they are wrong??!!

Of course not! This is the point! Combine that with a pigheaded rookie and what do you have? A very nasty problem. I have worked with senior officials like this. What I have learned is they don't move up the ladder, however, as you pursue this profession and progress up the ladder, you may run into some of these people. I think the lesson here is to stand down, report the incident or questionable call to the assigner, don't ever accept an assignment with this person ever again. Read MadCityRef input, well said MadCityRef!

A quick side note. Because I didn't keep track of this moron senior official the first time I worked with him. I got him again 2 years later. Damn! I knew I remember this guy! Objective, keep good notes....

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Wow... in this particular case the R was dead wrong, but by your standard that doesn't matter because he's the senior, more experienced guy and the younger, less-experienced guy should just go with what the senior, more experienced guy says...that's assinine.
That is not asinine and that is not my standard, but that is our society. We should respect our seniors. Most of us are too proud to step down when the time has come. We see this in all sports. There are players who don't know when to let it go. Boxers who continue to box until they have no more brains. Didn't Sylvester Stallone just make another boxing movie, this guy is about 60 years old, George Foreman wants to fight again, come on...it's all over our society.

As far as officiating. It is unacceptable for an assigner to put a guy out there on the court who doesn't know the rules or is too old. Unacceptable, but it happens. Now what are we going to do?

I know I'm right, but...

I worked a college playoffs game 2 years ago with a guy who couldn't even run up and down the court. We had to try to leave him in the C slot. I had no idea until the game started. This official needs to give it up. The assigner got no business giving him games. This is a problem and I got no idea how to solve it.

Old School Sun Dec 10, 2006 09:04am

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
I think I've articulated my position pretty clearly. Have you read these posts?

Yes, I read them and I thought they where very good points. However, you choose to insult me rather than focus on the issue. My grandmother once told me, if you got nothing good to say, then don't say nothing at all. You should consider my grandmothers thoughts. What my grandmother really meant was it is best to remain silent and not create an enemy.

Maybe one day, if lucky, you will get to be a grandmother.

Peace

Jurassic Referee Sun Dec 10, 2006 09:13am

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Originally Posted by Old School

I worked a college playoffs game 2 years ago.

Lah me........

Now he's not only morphed magically into an assignor, he's also doing college playoff games.....

JMO and McGriffs <i>redux</i>......:)

Tell us all about your pro games next.

refnjoe Mon Dec 11, 2006 12:05pm

Hmm, and I always thought that thing in March was referred to as a tournament.

Maybe he meant that he worked the NBA playoffs? :rolleyes:

rainmaker Mon Dec 11, 2006 01:34pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
Yes, I read them and I thought they where very good points. However, you choose to insult me rather than focus on the issue. My grandmother once told me, if you got nothing good to say, then don't say nothing at all. You should consider my grandmothers thoughts. What my grandmother really meant was it is best to remain silent and not create an enemy.

Maybe one day, if lucky, you will get to be a grandmother.

Peace

And talking about your grandmother is supposed to help me focus on the issue?

Okay, here's the issue. You asked how to handle a disagreement with a partner. You prescribed how you would do it, and think others should do the same. Several people have told you that that's not what the book says, and that's not even how it's handled in most of the country, but you keep insisting you know what's best. You keep asking questions that others keep answering, and then you are not answering the questions that people keep asking you. The issue has been focused on, answered and repeated, again and again.

Part of "the issue" is your authority to insist that you're right and everyone else is wrong. Where do you get your authority? What book citations can you give for your position? What kind of ball do you work? WHat associations do you belong to? I am having a hard time focusing on the issue of your disagreements with JR and others, because I'm having a hard time keeping you as a referee in focus. You could help with that. What are your reffing credentials?

btw, I am a grandmother. And I do indeed feel fortunate. I was lucky to be a mother at all, because of some physical difficulties, and now I'm a Nonna. Way, way past lucky.

rainmaker Mon Dec 11, 2006 01:35pm

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Originally Posted by refnjoe
Hmm, and I always thought that thing in March was referred to as a tournament.

Maybe he meant that he worked the NBA playoffs? :rolleyes:

I don't know do the JUCO JV/s call their playoffs tournaments?

Old School Mon Dec 11, 2006 04:30pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
Okay, here's the issue. You asked how to handle a disagreement with a partner. You prescribed how you would do it, and think others should do the same.

Hold the phone, I merely suggested a different view of the issue. Last I checked, this is still America, and I have a right to my opinion. Now, I don't recall saying this is the "ONLY" way, or the CORRECT way to handle this type of issue. Not every condition that can happen to you on the court is defined in the precious rulebook.

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Several people have told you that that's not what the book says, and that's not even how it's handled in most of the country, but you keep insisting you know what's best. You keep asking questions that others keep answering, and then you are not answering the questions that people keep asking you. The issue has been focused on, answered and repeated, again and again.
Actually, you guys didn't get my point until about page 3. If you view this as one question asked and answer. You could say that. But if you view this as a discussion, which is the way I view it. Then engage the discussion if you choose. If you got nothing to say, then it's okay to past. It is not okay to attack another person credibility because you disagree with them. We are suppose to be better than that, we are the ones that are suppose to uphold the integrity. Yet we attack each other like piranhas on fresh meat if someone says something you disagree with.

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Part of "the issue" is your authority to insist that you're right and everyone else is wrong.
Where did you get this from? I have no authority here. I am a nobody. I merely engage this forum in a discussion on the rules of basketball. Debate me if you choose, ignore me if you must, but don't hate me because I share a different opinion.

rainmaker Mon Dec 11, 2006 04:34pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
It is not okay to attack another person credibility because you disagree with them. We are suppose to be better than that, we are the ones that are suppose to uphold the integrity. Yet we attack each other like piranhas on fresh meat if someone says something you disagree with.

I certainly can't attack your credibility when I don't know what your credibility is.

And while I've gotten a little snippy with you, I certainly haven't attacked you like a piranha. And if you really think it's a "we" problem, then you can also stop attacking.

So you've expressed your opinion, told why you think that way, and others have disagreed with you and told why they think their way. Are we at the point where we all agree to disagree? That would be fine with me. And probably everybody else on this thread.

But it would still be nice to have some clue as to who you are and what your credibility is. It's just hard to understand where you're coming from, when we don't know where you're coming from.

Jurassic Referee Mon Dec 11, 2006 06:03pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
I certainly can't attack your credibility when I don't know what your credibility is.

Geeze, Woman, he's already told you that he's an assignor and he does college playoff games. How could he possibly have any more credibility than that? The man literally reeks of credibility!

Well, there is the wee, tiny matter of not owning any rule books and not knowing the basic rules, but that shouldn't really bring his credibility into question, should it? Huh? Should it?:D

JMO obviously....

Old School Mon Dec 11, 2006 06:32pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
And while I've gotten a little snippy with you, I certainly haven't attacked you like a piranha. And if you really think it's a "we" problem, then you can also stop attacking.

Piranhas attack in groups, it was not meant as a you only attack. I am the nicest gentleness man you will ever meet online, but cross me, and I will strike back, I will strike back!

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But it would still be nice to have some clue as to who you are and what your credibility is. It's just hard to understand where you're coming from, when we don't know where you're coming from.
I am here only to learn and debate the rules as I think I understand them. Debate and discussion is good for the old sole that thinks he knows it all, but learns that he really doesn't know much at all. Case in point, what you read and what you interpret you just read can be two different things. I think it was around the 3rd or 4th page, I learned that the calling official has precedence over the call. Rule 2-6 says no official has the authority to set aside or question another officials call. It does not exactly say, calling official has precedence over a call in his/her primary area. For me, this is key because now, I can take my understanding of this rule one step further than I could before, which is a benefit to my overall understanding. Just go to the table and report your call and attempt to move the game on. Don't stand there arguing with your partner over who's right or who's more right. Big key for me. It came at a price too, I mean I had to take a few insults, got sidetracked a little bit nursing some off-topic stuff, but, just like in the game, I kept my focus and I got thru it, and I got what I needed.

Be not too concern as to who I am but what I represent.
Peace

rainmaker Mon Dec 11, 2006 07:27pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
Piranhas attack in groups, it was not meant as a you only attack. I am the nicest gentleness man you will ever meet online, but cross me, and I will strike back, I will strike back!


I am here only to learn and debate the rules as I think I understand them. Debate and discussion is good for the old sole that thinks he knows it all, but learns that he really doesn't know much at all. Case in point, what you read and what you interpret you just read can be two different things. I think it was around the 3rd or 4th page, I learned that the calling official has precedence over the call. Rule 2-6 says no official has the authority to set aside or question another officials call. It does not exactly say, calling official has precedence over a call in his/her primary area. For me, this is key because now, I can take my understanding of this rule one step further than I could before, which is a benefit to my overall understanding. Just go to the table and report your call and attempt to move the game on. Don't stand there arguing with your partner over who's right or who's more right. Big key for me. It came at a price too, I mean I had to take a few insults, got sidetracked a little bit nursing some off-topic stuff, but, just like in the game, I kept my focus and I got thru it, and I got what I needed.

Be not too concern as to who I am but what I represent.
Peace

Okay, what do you represent? I'm still not sure. Although I'm impressed that you have changed your tune from the beginning of the thread. Not everyone can do that.

Old School Mon Dec 11, 2006 08:22pm

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Originally Posted by rainmaker
Okay, what do you represent? I'm still not sure. Although I'm impressed that you have changed your tune from the beginning of the thread. Not everyone can do that.

I represent the voice of reason. I represent those voices that are afraid to speak for fear of being wrong. I am too old to be wrong, no, I am too old to care about being wrong. My motto is: you don't have to be perfect to be a good official. You just have to be consistent.

I will leave you with this, a wise man once said, it is best to be consistently bad than to be inconsistent.

Peace

rainmaker Mon Dec 11, 2006 08:28pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
I represent the voice of reason.

Wow. Just wow. It's not easy, but you've left me speechless.

Smitty Tue Dec 12, 2006 01:16am

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Originally Posted by Old School
I represent the voice of reason. I represent those voices that are afraid to speak for fear of being wrong. I am too old to be wrong, no, I am too old to care about being wrong. My motto is: you don't have to be perfect to be a good official. You just have to be consistent.

I will leave you with this, a wise man once said, it is best to be consistently bad than to be inconsistent.

Peace

This guy hasn't changed a bit. Everything he says is pure nonsense. It's of no use whatsoever here. He constantly avoids saying what his experience with officiating is. I'm betting he's never officiated a basketball game in his life. He's only here to cause trouble. What a waste of space.

Scrapper1 Tue Dec 12, 2006 08:34am

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I will leave you with this, a wise man once said, it is best to be consistently bad than to be inconsistent.
I've got Old School on "ignore", but somebody else quoted this, and I couldn't believe it.

Who said this? What "wise man" would spout such completely inanity? You would rather ALWAYS be bad, than to be MOSTLY very good with a couple of bad moments? Really? That's the stupidest thing I've read in this forum in a long long time. Can we pull this idiot's account?

mbyron Tue Dec 12, 2006 08:39am

My impression is that OS tries to foist these gems on us and to reel in a few by prefacing them with "a wise man once said."

Of course, Old School didn't know that the wise man prefaced his remark with: "Don't ever think that..."

Raymond Tue Dec 12, 2006 09:51am

I think it would be best not to address Old School directly. If he says something about officiating basketball worthy of a reply just "quote" that portion of his post, delete his name from "quote=" and debate the merits of what the specific quote says.

Old School is obviously the alter-ego of one of our regular forum members. Maybe he's working on a thesis for his doctorate on human behavior and how humans respond to blatant idiocy. ;)

M&M Guy Tue Dec 12, 2006 10:10am

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Originally Posted by BadNewsRef
Old School is obviously the alter-ego of one of our regular forum members. Maybe he's working on a thesis for his doctorate on human behavior and how humans respond to blatant idiocy. ;)

Uh oh. Has anyone heard if Chuck is working on such a thesis? Maybe that's the real reason Chuck left?

Chuck, how could you?!?

Old School Tue Dec 12, 2006 10:31am

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Originally Posted by Scrapper1
Who said this? What "wise man" would spout such completely inanity?

What is inanity?

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You would rather ALWAYS be bad, than to be MOSTLY very good with a couple of bad moments? Really? That's the stupidest thing I've read in this forum in a long long time. Can we pull this idiot's account?
It was a basketball quote you moron. Relating this to basketball, it is better as an official to be consistently bad then to be inconsistent. In other words, if you consistently call the game the same way, that is, a no-call for a foul on one end is a no-call for a foul on the other end. You are better to officiate the game that way than to call a foul at one end, and not call the same type of foul on the other end.

I figure that quote would go over your heads. Debate me if you choose, ignore me if you must, but don't hate me because I'm good.

Peace

M&M Guy Tue Dec 12, 2006 10:45am

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Originally Posted by Old School
What is inanity?

According to dictionary.com:

in·an·i·ty /ɪˈnænɪti/ –noun, plural -ties for 2.
1. lack of sense, significance, or ideas; silliness.
2. something inane.
3. shallowness; superficiality.

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Originally Posted by Old School
My grandmother once told me, if you got nothing good to say, then don't say nothing at all. You should consider my grandmothers thoughts. What my grandmother really meant was it is best to remain silent and not create an enemy.

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Originally Posted by Old School
It was a basketball quote you moron.

Maybe you should be following your own grandmother's advice.

bob jenkins Tue Dec 12, 2006 10:46am

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Originally Posted by Old School
What is inanity?

You don't own a dictionary either?

Seriously -- your postings, in general, do not comply with the tone that we want on this board. I've tried to go easy on you, and delete some posts (or parts thereof) from certain members who also crossed the line. I hoped that you would learn. If you want to stay, please change.

Scrapper1 Tue Dec 12, 2006 10:52am

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What is inanity?
Somewhere, there's a village that is missing its idiot. . .

Old School Tue Dec 12, 2006 02:24pm

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Originally Posted by bob jenkins
You don't own a dictionary either?

Seriously -- your postings, in general, do not comply with the tone that we want on this board. I've tried to go easy on you, and delete some posts (or parts thereof) from certain members who also crossed the line. I hoped that you would learn. If you want to stay, please change.

Bob, if you want to kick me out because I never heard the word inanity before. That is fine. I offer no excuse accept to say if you get smart with me, expect the same in return. If you treat me with respect, I will be respectful, but that is not this forum. The arrogance on this forum is insulting. If you can't take it in return, than don't dish it out. Remember the saying, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Peace

Smitty Tue Dec 12, 2006 02:42pm

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Originally Posted by Old School
Bob, if you want to kick me out because I never heard the word inanity before. That is fine. I offer no excuse accept to say if you get smart with me, expect the same in return. If you treat me with respect, I will be respectful, but that is not this forum. The arrogance on this forum is insulting. If you can't take it in return, than don't dish it out. Remember the saying, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Peace

How about respecting the forum by telling us all when and where you officiated and at what level? You constantly avoid that question. You earn respect - you don't get it automatically.

rainmaker Tue Dec 12, 2006 04:24pm

Wow, Smitty, I'm impressed!! We all work for seven pages, and two weeks, and you get it out of him in just a few well chosen words. You are truly a,

let's see, what is it JR? Person of great wisdom? Yankees fan? How does that go?

(insert gif of cute little grovellers bowing to a great leader)


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