How do you handle this.................

[Ref in PA]

I remember coming into a gym to ref a 7th grade boys game and my brother was the coach of the visiting team. The schedule given me just says a school and a time. I don't know who my partner or the opponents will be until I show up. I T'd my brother in the second quarter and did not hear a peep out him until Sunday dinner at Mom's. He thought I should have warned him before I T'd him.

You have no friends out there, not even relatives!