It was bad, but just how bad?

[Jurassic Referee]

Originally posted by Hartsy

Two questions remain for me.
1)Did I make the proper call as a flagrant foul?
2)Did everyone in the gym know we screwed up the free throw situation?

1) If you felt that the shove coulda injured the other player, or that the shove coulda possibly led to a fight, then a flagrant could be the right call. Without seeing it, it's impossible to give you a definitive answer imo.
2)Probably not everyone knew, but probably "some" people in the gym knew that you screwed up. That is a pretty basic penalty application. As you said, all you can do is learn from it. It'll never happen again, will it?