Easiest T in my life...

[mplagrow]

I don't know, I think we have a lot of good suggestions from different officials, but everybody's got to officiate their own game. Maybe humor is your 'style,' maybe not. Maybe your a coach ignorer, maybe you like to talk to them and listen to them. Everybody has to decide what works for them, and stick with it. There isn't any definitive way to handle those situations. It took me a decade to become comfortable with myself and my style. Polite, firm, and right!