Legally putting ball in play, dead ball violations

[BJ Moose]

A couple points of order please.

"Within my association" simply means a few umpires having a discussion... In no way am I implying or saying that "My Association" has a position contrary to the correct one. Far from it.. I believe I am part of one of the strongest umpire associations in the country, they even let in low level JV umpires like me.

So far, everyone, including me, at least here, agrees on all points.

The biggest bone of contention with SOME people I talk to (high level, experienced, top quality umpires). is that "trick play" scenario.

To refresh: R1.. after a pick off attempt, time granted, F3 fakes the return. Pitcher gets on the rubber AS IF he had the ball, and PU NOT REALIZING THE DEKE, says PLAY! Tag on runner by F3..

In my opinion... PU say, Oh crap. NO BALK! NO OUT! and Defense gets a stern talking to. Do over!

Some respected umpires insist to me that even though the call of PLAY may be technically incorrect, the ball IS in play and the BALK must be called due to the OBVIOUS illegal act and intent to decieve. Thoughts?