Was this too much?

[jicecone]

"Adult league game" commonly known as "Baby sitting"

65+ yr old umpire trying to grab the finger of an adult, acting like a kid! ??
Unprofessional.

Umpire making up rules to send the pouting little brat to his room!! !

Boy that must have been fun.

Generally, a reasonalble amount of time (as determined by the official) to leave the confines of the field is acceptable unless League rules state differently.

Outside the confines of the field is not the jurisdiction of the umpire. But if he can get the players to belive otherwise, Go for it!