Originally Posted by Carbide Keyman

You would have to begin by having a point.

And, with that, I'm done with you.

Originally Posted by PWL

Bob Jenkins and others,

I would like to make an apology for my behavior the last few days. It is because of members like Steve Meyer and Tim Haag. They always bring out the worst in me. They have from the very first time I joined this forum. I am thoroughly aggravated at the backstabbing job they did to me on the ABUA forum.1 Much like they tried to pull here if you remember. I never denied any wrongdoing and accepted my suspension. They in turn, blamed theirs on me. Revenge was their only motive for what they did. Unfortunately, this is the only place I can air my feelings.2 So again, I apologize and will try to not vent at their misguided way of life.3

Originally Posted by WhatWuzThatBlue

I have remained mum on this issue because I believe that words can't hurt. As umpires, we need to master communication skills and learn the art of deflection. We will be the target of taunts - some deserved while others illogical at best.

Now...the only thing I can say is what my Mother taught me too long ago; you shouldn't apologize and use the words 'but', 'however' or 'if they had acted otherwise'. In other words, don't qualify your accountability.

I can't recall apologizing for anything that I have written on these forums. Maybe my words sting or prevent legitimate discussion from transpiring sometimes, but 0s and 1s don't mean much in the grand scheme of things. (Computerese for those who don't get it.) I have been involved in heated debates with many on this forum, yet I don't consider them enemies. A difference of opinion is the spice of life. (Besides, I know that I'm right and they are always wrong! ;) )

So...what to do? It appears that our antagonists will keep pushing each other's hot buttons. Either learn to ignore it or do it in a way that wins the battle and gets the thread locked. Getting the last word in but looking like a chump is never becoming for an umpire - reference: Tim Timmons.

Life is short.

Originally Posted by LomUmp

Hey all,

1. Blaming others is NOT apologizing
2. Are your feeling hurt? Do you need a WAAA-mbulance?
3. Last but not least...Better to be silent and be thought a fool than speak and remove all doubt!

Basically, quit yo cryin'. No one wants to hear it except you.

LomUmp:cool:

I think the keys are in the door. Let's check on the way out.

Originally Posted by PWL

That's good to know. I would have figured you were more the Roach Motel kind of guy.......:D

You know roaches check in, but they don't check out.;)

Originally Posted by umpduck11

You know, I really should have taken my own advice, and not even posted
to you.Others have said don't feed the trolls, but I didn't listen, and did so.
I won't make that mistake again.