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				Originally posted by JRutledge  
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But you have to be of a certain race to understand that race or know when a derogatory statement is or is not allowed to be used?? 
			
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Who said "you had to be of a certain race" to understand a derogetory statement?  You need to go back and read that debate if you feel that way.  What I said,  is the fact that I am of a certain race,  I tend to understand better that let us say a white male.  Or someone that has never been called that word a day in their life.  And please do not tell me that the N-word applies to anyone of any race.  Save that discussion.  Why might I have a different perspective than most here that are obviously white,  you might ask?  Because I spend more of my "free time" with people that look like me and are of a similar culture background as I am.  Unless you are "kicking it" on a regular basis with Blacks,  I would not expect you to understand or share a perspective on a word that is derogatory towards people that look like me.  This is also factoring that most officials that I come in contact with or I officiate with,  are much older than I and much whiter than myself. 
 
Back to this issue,  unless you have a daughter that is playing football (according to your logic),  then I guess no one here would understand what it takes for a female to play.  But then again,  I do not care what it takes,  that is for them to deal with. 
 
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 It's YOUR logic not mine. Reread your post quoted again below.
"Unless you are "kicking it" on a regular basis with Blacks,  I would not expect you to understand or share a perspective on a word that is derogatory towards people that look like me."