If you've really never been on the floor with a whistle, the best thing you can do is just get out there and do it. Don't take anything that happens as a permanent condition. You're not the worst ref ever, and you're not the amazing phenom that'll put 'em all in their places. You're just getting started. After about 35 or 50 games, what's your feeling? Loving it? Never again? Wanting new challenges? That's the time to really dig in, and start getting serious.
Do find a rule book, before you start, and study up. Ask someone about the interpretation of the different rules in your area. Watch other refs. Ask questions.
And stay on this board. Whether your problem is rules, attitudes, emotions, conditioning, or fashion, this is the place to get the final word.
Most of all, if a coach gives you too much trouble, check with Padgett about Staring and Puking lessons. He's the master!!
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