[ChuckElias]

vabella, welcome to the board. Glad to have you here. It's always nice to have coaches here to give a different perspective. And if we can help you understand the rules better, then that's a bonus. (Thanks for popping somebody's "over the back" bubble!)

To answer your question, I do think that the repeated violation should not be intentionally missed. Either it's legal, and you have to let the kid continue doing it, or it becomes a travesty (intentionally violating a rule repeatedly) and you have to penalize it. Personally, I agree that I would tell the kid (or the coach, if possible) that it won't be tolerated. If he continues, then penalize with a T.

Chuck