[Jim S]

Where do you find such a statement that the second team in this situation has a "right" to know what the other team is going to do? They don't get to have an advantage because they were the FIRST to foul. Otherewise you are giving them an advantage that the other team does not get, the information as to what the second team is going to do before they have to make their decision.
In this case to be fair to BOTH teams you have them make their choices without benefit of knoledge of what the other team is going to do.
In the case of the single foul you give ALL pertinent information.