Well, she was a special girl... We'd been with each other a long time, and...
OH! Not that first time.
Relax out there. Take things one step at a time and don't feel like you have to "rush" things to make it look like you've been doing this for years.
Slow down, read the play, think about it, think about it some more, make the call.
You'll do just fine out there.