you might wanna give these a try:
Carolina Women's Slip Resisting Athletic ST | TheShoeMart
they are steel toed, real leather, no white to sharpie black. seems they outa yer size , but these can be had rather cheap since that online retailer offers free shipping and always offers an additional 15%-20% off w/ a coupon code. other online retailers sell that shoe as well.
Carolina CA1555 - Free Shipping & Return Shipping - Shoebuy.com
there's no met guard, but you could prolly buy two cheap diamond throat guards (the long ones perhaps) and use the laces to position them on top.
http://www.homerunmonkey.com/homerun...PRODUCT_SEARCH
or, go for a metguard boot like this:
http://www.elliottsboots.com/C498-Co...FNDOEI/Product