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Old Wed Jan 08, 2003, 06:43pm
williebfree williebfree is offline
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Re: Confrontational words

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Originally posted by LepTalBldgs
... a more calming response might be something like "I believe the rule is 30 seconds coach". Then to the table (loud enough for the coach to hear) "give me 30 seconds please". There is certainly the opportunity for the coach to continue chattering, but at least it appears to me that a difference in language has the prospect of calming them down.
I disagree with your "bending over backwards" here. The coach needs a decisive response. Your toned down version is going to appear as if you aren't sure and open the door for more criticism. It is obvious that this coach decided he was going to get his "two cents worth" regardless of the officials approach.

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Originally posted by LepTalBldgs
I read this board for posts such as your so that I can gain experience through more than just floor time. I've learned a lot about the correct way to avoid confrontation by being married 15 years. Someday I'll be an expert.
Boy oh boy.... your 15 yrs of marriage are a training ground for officiating??? Makes me appreciative of what I have... (Which is also 16 yrs of wedded bliss)
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