How about just using 4, 6, or 7, asterisks and let each one fill in his own favorite ?

Instead of insisting someone else (Probably more than a few) take action to avoid undesirable words/actions . Is it possible some of the youngsters you officiate read these posts? My sons,age 7 and 9 are already computer literate and may wish to learn about referee "stuff" in what may be presumed to be a "safe" site . If anything goes here , it might as well be the same while working a game right ? I'm not offended and I catch myself doing things Others may not approve of also .The difference being that I don't make excuses or justify those undesirable actions . Kids are too smart these days for any "do as I say ,not as I do " philosophies ! Lets help each other stay accountable ,with grace and understanding . End of rant