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Old Sat Dec 05, 2009, 12:38am
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Originally Posted by BktBallRef View Post
Not everyone can be "de-escalated." There's a local coach who I've already whacked this season. Why? Because he doesn't know how to talk to people. I've worked his games for the past 5 years and every year, I think, "Maybe he's grown up." So each time I see him, I once again make the mistake of trying to be approachable, he steps on his dick and I end up sticking him.

I'm made up my mind that I am no longer going to be approachable with him. I'll nod yes or no and that's it. I've even told my crew that if I talk to him, they have permission to head slap me.
I realize that. The question was meant to be an honest inquiry, knowing full well the answer may be "we tried, it couldn't be done."
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