I feel fortunate the the teams in our 30-over co-ed leaue are mostly civil with each other. We did have some issues with the #1 team trash talking and whining a bit, but we know the best way to handle that is to beat them should we get a chance to face them again in the playoffs
I'll also go on record to say I don't like the feel good laws either (regarding hate crimes and other similar offenses). If someone decided to premeditate violence, the act itself should be what gets the severe punishment and not who or why. JMO, though.