[Ed Maeder]

Can't tell you in either of your situations weather or not "you" should have ejected the player or coach. Every umpire has their own limit of what they will take. Yours is different then mine or anyones. One thing I have learned throughout my time of officiating sports, is if I go home beating myself up for not ejecting someone, then they should have been ejected. In time an official gains respect from players and coaches and in turn officials gain a respect for the coaches and players and things seem to work out.