[Jurassic Referee]

Originally Posted by rainmaker

Scrappy, I took that joke as offensive, too, and not as humor.

But in this world, there's NOWHERE that women aren't sometimes put down or assumed to be less than men, at least upon occasion. It's just the way life is.

The real problem is that when a woman, a racial minority, a guy, anyone who is systematically put down or held down has to stop and analyze every situation, every statement, every job interview, every traffic stop, every characterization, every look, every joke, every double meaning, every assignment, every insult, every..... well, it's just exhausting.

So........ to sum up.......you're happy but tired.