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Originally Posted by NURef
I'm a second year official getting my first shot at regulation high school bball...freshman & some JV games this winter. Over the last year I've been so impressed with the feedback, help and exchange of information from my partners...lots to learn and lots of mistakes.
However, several veteran officials have warned me that don't be surprised if you don't get an open arms welcome from the varsity crew as you complete your freahman or JV game heading into the dressing room looking to get some quality feedback or discuss a situation. Why is this? Is it due to that fact that the varsity crew is getting mentally set for their game or is it that I'm just not worthy as a rookie...probably both. Also, any tips on how to break the ice? Thanks!
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First of all, don't spend too much time worrying about it if a veteran isn't willing to help you out. We have all been rookies at one time and were helped by a veteran so we are obligated to return the favor. If a veteran isn't willing to help out, just forget them.
I know some veterans who have become jaded because some of the rookies that they have offered to help were "know-it-alls" and didn't want help. So now they don't give help to anyone. IMO, that's pretty lame (and a cop-out).
Rainmaker has a good idea in contacting the varsity crew ahead of time. Whenever a newer official calls me or e-mails me and asks if I'll critique them, I make sure to get there early for their entire game and give them a written evaluation. That way, I still have something to give them even if I don't have time to talk to them after their game (a thorough pregame before my game is very important to me).