[NCASAUmp]

I'm usually pretty reasonable about the "no profanity" rule. I'm not a religious person at all, but I live in a very religious area. As such, I do try to find a balance between the community expectations and what is reasonable to allow as an umpire. However, one thing that was made very clear once I moved to the area and started calling SB here was that these are considered "community parks," a place where families should be able to bring their young kids without having to cover their ears or say "earmuffs" when a batter pops up.

Frankly, I'm all for some highly competitive ball and great athleticism. When I used to play, I was VERY competitive. However, regardless of what rules were in place, I always found a way to keep from being vulgar, however you might define it. Let out a growl, slap your hand, and move on. Besides, it's rec ball, right? Why do players *need* to cuss during rec ball? If you pop up, shrug it off, and do better next time.

Tourneys are different, and if I call any, I will let a bit more slide. I just calmly say, "hey... keep it clean, player." 99% of the time, they acknowledge it was wrong, apologize, and keep from doing it again. No big deal to me, and no big deal for them.