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utex:
That's great that you have interest. Keep in mind it takes a very special person to officiate. Create a goal, and that goal is what you shall strive for. First thing is first-Are you married? Do you have kids? That has to be your priority! If the wife doesn't mind you being gone many late evenings and does your kid(s) need your attention? Don't miss out on them growing up, as they're only young once. Is your job flexible enough to allow you to take off early? Now, here comes the fun part-How thick is your skin? You'll have good nights and bad nights, but your attitude and facial expression must remain consistent no matter the consequences. If there are problems, you have to take care of business. There is no room for ignorant coaches and abusive fans. You have to learn to handle each accordingly for the benefit of the players, not you, or the coaches/fans. That's why you are officiating, to enhance the educational values for the players. If the coach or fans step out of line, you have to whack him, or even have the fan removed. The kids will learn from it, trust me.
I had to retire, due to the demand at work, but it taught me lots of character and how to handle idiots, professionaly. I still prioritize kids and enjoy teaching younger officials and assisting them achieve their goals.
Good luck!!
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