[deecee]

i would have done it different bay but what you did is fine by the books.

after he responded with "co-coaches" I would mention its his choice if they both stand or alternate who stands and coaches and it will be the opposing captain's choice who will shoot the 2 free throws.

now he knows what the penalty will be and its entirely up to him and his "co-coach" where it goes from there. now if trouble comes, it found you not the other way around. btw I can see where your partner was coming from however he was wrong on the time and place. your T was warranted and that should have been a locker room discussion.