Gotta agree with Dan and JR here. Coaches need to coach and that does not include coaching me as the ref. How can you let someone question you on EVERY call? It is not constructive and just sends a message that a coach can walk all over you.
Also, why ask the coach if he wants a T? By that point in the game there should be no leeway. The comment was personal in nature and questioned your ability. Immediate T in my book whenever it gets personal.
As JR says.... you gotta take care of bidness. Other officials are gonna get this coach at somepoint and he is going to pull the same crap with them.
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