[Mountaineer]

I disagree with the premise that criticism from a coach is wrong. Of couse they can critisize - even to my face - but they cannot be disprespectful. In the leagues I officiate in, not only can they be critical, they can scratch your a$$ if they really want to. I hope you really don't mean you won't allow a coach to "pass judgement" on whether you made the correct call or not - again, IMO, if they are respectful - criticise away!

I would also state that boys vs. girls games where one is more difficult is all perception. I could make an arguement that when comparing equal levels one is more difficult than the other. Girls are usually slower, weaker and can't jump as high as boys at the same age level. Therefore, if you are comparing MS basketball - the girls is usually sloppier (less skilled), more physical because the players can't control their movements as well, and slower. If MS bball in your area is different then thank your lucky stars for that . . . I would venture that my description is more accurate. That being the case, a slower, more physical, and sloppier game tends to be more difficult to call. What do I pass on vs. what do I need to call . . . I wouldn't state that is the case simply because you called more IF's though, but rather on the skill level of the players.

I agree with the other seasoned officials in that rule knowledge and game management skills are of equal importance. If you have one without the other you will not go very far as an official.

Good luck to you in the future!