1. "I reminded him that we weren’t getting the usual horn to remind us that subs were available..."
This is not an excuse to miss subs.
2. “You are allowed to ask a question or make a statement but it must be in a polite manner. This did not qualify.” I don't understand why officials don't see that some things they say are not going to make the situation better. If a coach doesn't something worthy, give him/her a T. It is as simple as that. Remember, silence cannot be quoted.
3. The site administrator shouldn't have been yelling or screaming at you in the dressing room.
4. No matter what anyone might say, these games are very important to someone and should be treated as such.
5. It was wrong for admin to talk to a coach like this during the game. You could really be a jerk by stopping the game and going over to see what the conversation is about.
Just a few opinions from good old Tom. Heck, I would have been flinging stop signs around like a traffic cop.