Thanks JRut & Fred, I appreciate those thoughts.
I do have a couple friends that I know in my other professional life- one has been in my association for 10 years, and the other for about 5. I did run it by the 10-year vet and he gave me guidance on how I should approach the issue and who I should talk to. The advice that I got is that they would want me to say something.
Without getting into the details, I didn't take it to THE assigning secretary, but spoke to an assistant and a JV rep.
I also made it clear that I wasn't complaining. Rather, I asked them about the association's expectations of me and refrained from mentioning the day of the game, team names, or my partner's name.
Based on the response I got, it seemed that the advice I received was sound and I'm glad I spoke to them.
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